Is preferring older women a sign of mommy issues?

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EyeKnowMeNahYou · Accepted Answer

I suppose you could all tired and that's happened Mommy issues, neglect issues via the mother, or just submit the fact that you are mature and find them attractive. As for myself I've always liked my mates to be older. And as always been since Young, my mom knew this too and she probably at best assumed but was very close that I would lose my virginity to an older woman. And yes I remember 17 going on 18 there was a 30 plus year old woman that I was very much into and trying to really get into, and I almost have the chance it just slipped away. Basically what I'm saying is I think it's based upon all these things but mainly I think it's the maturity of the individual that willingly pursues and attractive older woman. Apparently she is something that he likes and perhaps he has not been able to find others his age or a little older, so he went for a different variety of female. I mean would we assume to that most of the women who were once girls that dated older men have daddy issues or do we call the older men that have dated younger perverts as well as the woman or do we say that they all have parenting issues lol

Rob59692 · Accepted Answer

No, I have a great relationship with my mom. My girlfriend is 41, and I’m 25. We love each other. And after a ton of girls, younger, my age, and slightly older by 2-5 years. I have never been happier in a relationship. We even treat each other like it’s our last day on earth together.

sheikalana · Accepted Answer

I don't see it as mommy issues. The person who prefers older women is the one who has to know if they have mommy issues or not. It's hard for an outsider to judge based upon a sentence only. But when I see a younger men dating an older women I think she likes her for who she his and maybe because she likes the fact that's probably more experienced than him.

Adele_26 · Accepted Answer

Nah. There’s scientific evidence that depending on the age your parents had you, it can impact who you see as attractive. For example, my biological dad is 7 years younger than my mom. I’m attracted to younger men (have to be at least 21 though lmao).

Curmudgeon · Answer

Meh. It may be just young "InCels" getting an opportunity where they can. No, the relationships typically do not last, but he gets experience at last, she gets to feel desired by a young man again and "get her groove back". Win-win.

Reaper1985 · Answer

if the female in question is roughly twice or more the age of the male then maybe. however maybe couples have a 3 to 15 year age gap between them. based on online surveys done by dating sites. typically it's a older male and younger female but it can be vise versa.

MagicCarpet1 · Answer

No, I prefer older women because younger women are retarded, whenever I date older mature women the hoes are mad!

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

God it might be. I have mommy AND daddy issues (since worked out mostly, thanks therapy!), but the MILF attraction is real.

dustybiker · Answer

Not always. It might mean someone is more mature than their peers at any given time. I’ve seen some people outgrow it.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I don’t think so.  Many girls date older guys, do they have daddy issues? Nope. Older women can be quite attractive. I always felt proud when at 18-19 my 40 yo mother turned more heads than I did.

YungBahlr · Answer

Only a sign of good taste 😌 Older women are under appreciated for the value of their beauty and charm. It seems only reasonable to eventually figure it out.

RuthlessAggression · Answer

It's been said so, yes. However. only you know your own issues. I can't say whether you have them or not. I know a lot of younger girls who go for older men, usually wind up having daddy issues

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I'm 67. What do you mean by "older?" by the way, my girlfriend is 58, so I guess I don't have mommy issues at present, but I have dated older women in the past.

Vendela · Answer

No. I always hated when people said that. "Oh you're dating an older man/woman? Sounds like mommy/daddy issues" bullshit.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

You mean Chris Hemsworth.. Jason Momoa.. Hugh Jackman aka manly men have mommy issues? Maybe.. But it seems like a sign of being cooler...

crossdressingrihno · Answer

I hope not I mean I actually prefer women who are older than me by about 4 or 5 years. Still though I'm going to limit myself to between 1 and 2 years older than me so that way it's not awkward.

humanearth · Answer

Not if your my age, you have Granny issues

amandat94132 · Answer

No not at all The nonsense about mommy issues is from the media and psychobable books

annabananna · Answer

No, there is no proof that dating older is a sign of any issues whether it be mommy or attachment issues.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I wouldn't worry about it, bro. You're already with her. No need to second-guess things.

GatewayRealm · Answer

Well Dating a older female Isn’t something i want. I’m pretty Old
And am not even interested in Dating. But I would go on dates for fun not to do anything.
There’s times when I wanna Get it on but It doesn’t happen often.

Vampirelover_12 · Answer

Males think it's empowering. Women think it's slutty.

Berethor · Answer

It might be a sign. Most men prefer women who are younger than themselves, so it's normal.

The_Naughty_Guy · Answer

Matured old women with big boobs and sexy ass are hot as fuck

Philyouup · Answer

no. not at all. when i was young, i found older woman liked a lot of things girls didn’t. and they all seemed to have swallowed.

Flower7 · Answer

Yeah, probably. If the woman is a LOT older.

John_Doesnt · Answer

According to psychology it usually means that a man was neglected by his mother.

Anonymous · Answer

Some say yes and can back it up... Some say there is no evidence.

JRise25 · Answer

Not at all, what I’ve learned is that older women tend to know better what they want and need in life. They won’t screw around.

OddBeMe · Answer

Perhaps. I've said about chicks who date older. Electra syndrome. But it could be many things.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

It might now be a mommy issue maybe a MILF issue.

Kichbazp_ · Answer

Yes specially if you like big boobs too

Pudsmucker · Answer

No, I think it's cougar issues.

CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS · Answer

Not necessarily but could be

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

yes 30 and above = mommy issues

AssholeNumberOne · Answer

.. No.

Joker_ · Answer

yeah, it means you want to have sex with your mom

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Naw, just a buck seeking easier pussy.

HeartFullOfGlue · Answer

Nope

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, I think so.

Fuentes · Answer

I don't know

Kaivalahali · Answer

it could be

alance99 · Answer

Nope

Canaaadaaa · Answer

Most likely

jimmy2 · Answer

No it your taste

Anonymous · Answer

For sure yes

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