Is a 19 year old virgin girl attractive or seen as weird? (Page 2)

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I have lots of self esteem issues accompanied with depression and I believe that loving someone would be difficult if I can’t love myself properly. I frequently get hit on even asked on dates, but I always say no. It’s because I think I’m not good enough- I’m fighting this half of my life xdd but it’s getting better, I think. So I was wondering that once I find someone I like, would the guy loose interest if he knew I have no dating/sexual experience?

DermalPunch · Answer

Please get married and find a nice guy that isn't a whore. It's so beautiful that you are still a virgin!

RavVid · Answer

Very unlikely to be rejected for being a virgin. I think most guys will take the view we can quickly fix that.

hyperben · Answer

not weird, its pretty normal I'd say. some girls will be younger some will be older but 19 isn't unusual

Brandi555 · Answer

I don’t think so. If the guy really likes you then I think he’d be fine with it. I’m sorry you feel this way.

TrillXHippy · Answer

I’m 27 and a virgin so stop thinking being a virgin is weird when it is not

Paul09 · Answer

All you are doing is overthinking. Just go with the flow. You are ready when YOU are ready. It is better to be a virgin than someone who has a high body count. You are worrying way too much. Relax , and just see where life takes you.

ConspiracyTheorist · Answer

I wouldn't think it is weird and plus it wouldn't have anything to do with how attractive a person is,

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

I would see it as neither. It is what it is, some guys will pull away from that but most will really want to be the one who "takes your virginity" especially if your at college.

MountAverage · Answer

How about neither? There's nothing unusual about being sexually inexperienced at 19. I mean, 19 is very young. But there's also nothing attractive about it. Why would it be? It just is.

Stevefiveo · Answer

Very attractive. That would definitely make her wifey material. If guys are asking you out, then they definitely think you are very pretty. So, try and relax and except some dates. Good luck.

Hardworkingguy · Answer

There is nothing wrong with that. I was a virgin until I was 21

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

U cud auction ur virginity instead of giving it free to someone.. if u r lucky u will become a millionaire overnight

Becky316 · Answer

I was 20 when I lost my virginity. I did a lot of sexual things beforehand but the 1st time I let a guy inside me was when I was 20.

Anonymous · Answer

If she's attractive, she's attractive. If she's ugly, being a virgin won't make her attractive. And if she's attractive, she'd still be attractive after getting banged.

So bottom line is, the virgin bit doesn't mean a whole lot.

Agent_Elflord · Answer

Not weird at all. I’m 23 and it looks like things are going really well with someone I’m talking to, so I think I’ll be losing it soon.

skydragonx5 · Answer

The lower your body count the better most men will love you. Just please please be careful some will try taken advantage of you since you have no experience

Anonymous · Answer

As a rule the more men you sleep with the fewer men would want to marry or remain married to you.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol girl relax your tits  I’m 30 virgin ~ that’s a flex  No I’m not ugly , yes im mentally healthy

Anonymous · Answer

damn, 19 is youngggggggg. so obviously it's not weird. and anyone who thinks it is weird is a creep.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

At the age of 19 that's still nothing ''out of line''.  Nothing to be concerned about.

DJB72 · Answer

A decent guy will have greater respect for you than if you had slept with everyone in the town.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Some guys are into that. I don't really care one way or the other.

Zolly99999 · Answer

Some guys prefer virgins.. you shouldn't worry.. you are perfect the way you are.

BJP21 · Answer

Let me explain something the top turn on hands down in my opinion... Is being confident and daring.  Good Example: Skinny dipping.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. I don't want girls who have had sex with other guys.

es20490446e · Answer

The only thing you aren't realizing is that: there's nothing wrong with you.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Definitely attractive. Too young for me, but definitely attractive.

AsaKyo · Answer

I don't know what's so weird about it I'm still one too, so who gives a fuck lmao

Jenny-Marie · Answer

Why would a normal guy lose interest? Surely, it's more fun to learn with each other and grow together.

Jesterteddy66 · Answer

It depends on the age of the guy and also do you think being a virgin a good or bad thing? And be careful of who you mess with some don’t care about relationships.

Anonymous · Answer

Not at all. Its a lot more common than you may think. I was a virgin at that time and none of the guys I've dated thought it was a bad thing.

Amirakavali00 · Answer

Coming from a girl who lost her virginity at 19 to the man she thought she was gonna marry, keep going. Most men respect that. It’s your life do what u think is best, but I promise it is not weird.

Anonymous · Answer

It's weird for women. You should be having sex and fun.

bigpauly · Answer

It’s completely fine. You’re still really young.

Mangospacho · Answer

Despite what guys tell you, we can’t tell if you’re a virgin or not just by looking at you.

CaptainLegal · Answer

Do whatever works for you, if you're not ready yet just don't force it, it will only suck more.

zagor · Answer

That is true of a lot of 19 y. o. of both genders. Don't believe everything you see in media.

WizzardGirl · Answer

Jesus effing christ... listen, nobody gives A SHIT at what age you put a cock inside your vagina... nobody Cares!! Ffs...

MiseriaCantareAFI · Answer

age and sexual activity has nothing to do with attractiveness. it's all got to do with legality

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

At that age most girls are still typically a virgin at least here in the U. S.

computer_nerd · Answer

i don't think it is seen as weird if it was i would be more weird i'm a 27 year old virgin

Po1989 · Answer

Not weird at all. It's a good thing even if you can't see that yet, I was 19 once too.

Guardian45 · Answer

Of course, a 19yo virgin is attractive, for age-appropriate, legal adults.

Adogdog · Answer

Really Attractive, sounds like you may have other things to work on though.

justFriend · Answer

I don't understand why this is a problem in Europe.

Cedman · Answer

I wouldn't care losing your virginity isn't a race.

Anonymous · Answer

Most rational thinking men will prefer a virgin way over a woman whose body count is sky high.

Anonymous · Answer

It’s the human form of gold. Especially if she’s attractive.

Anonymous · Answer

I find it more attractive; but then I am also a virgin.

clampfan101 · Answer

You’re only 19. I’m 34 and have no experience…

Paulalove98 · Answer

Not weird. I didn't have sex till i was 22.

PeteBy · Answer

Quite a positive in my opinion.

TonightYouu · Answer

A Sacrifice 😈

Fuentes · Answer

I don't date virgins

chloerichardson2022 · Answer

why would it be weird?

jimmy2 · Answer

Ohhh take care of your self

Ironic_Method · Answer

I don't think it's weird.

MilaRay · Answer

It’s not weird at all

Emma_Walker · Answer

There is nothing wrong with that at all

soe11 · Answer

Depending on what you wear.

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