But, that is what makes a diamond so valuable - it is RARE too.
When you find a guy whom is a possible boyfriend, consider just telling him straight out that you have no dating experience. His handling of that little piece of info will teach you a lot about him and his countenance in very short order! If he's thrown by that, it's simply time to move on.
There's nothing wrong or weird about being a virgin. I hate this stigma on virginity that if you have had sex before the age 15 these days, your somehow stuck in the stone age. It's a gift, don't throw it away or just give to anyone out there.
First you have to know what kind of guy you're looking for... long before you should be worrying about any sex stuff. A LOT of things that are easy to do can go bad or create baggage (more mental baggage). Look at all the girls/women you know... if they are in a bad place or having a tough time or even just not getting what you want to get out of life, then they're not a good role model for you.
Not weird. Very attractive. Here's the thing: yes, some guys will lose interest when they learn you're a virgin won't have sex right away. That's their loss and it's a good thing because that's not a guy you need to be with anyway. Stay true to you and when the time and guy is right, it'll be special.
Attractive. Not weird. I have special thrones in my heart for virgins. You can't explore together the first times with non-virgins. The bond of first times can't be shared with them. The more experienced with sex they are. But I don't mind non-virgins, we all human.
I wouldn't know she was a virgin unless she told me. I don't think it's weird at all. There are tons of guys that would want to be with a virgin. To me that doesn't make her attractive, her general appearance is what I find attractive. I could care less if she's fucked someone else or not
I honestly know how you feel. Finding someone to truly care about and be totally open with, feels like it’s impossible. However, once you find that special person it won’t matter on how much or how little experience you have. You see that person will accept you for who you are.
I think a single woman who's never married and isn't a virgin is already weird to me, she could have herpes or warts. If a girl is 19 and a virgin never married I hope that some 18 year old guy finds a girl like her cause here in westernized nations an adult woman who's a virgin is harder to get than winning the lottery or becoming president.
You really do need to work on your insecurities and shyness issues first. A woman who is almost in her twenties is like finding a unicorn. Don’t worry about that and just work on enjoying life! As for beauty. The majority of that is your personality!
Its fine just tell the guy you don't have sex for a couple months an you will find a guy who will be willing to wait just dont tell him on 1st date your a virgin or he will pretend he likes you then try to get you to bed an always have dates I public busy places an make shure a friend is at a table around your if a movie have a friend there further away an never let him pick you up go to where date is with a friend cuz this way you get a ride home with a safe person you trust
There ain't nothing weird about being a virgin! But if you are 19 years old and you are a virgin good for you go to college wait until you graduate from college to lose that virginity cuz sometimes when a woman loses her virginity she gets pregnant it's best to wait unless you're in a hurry to lose your virginity then I will help you do that if that's what you want I can't guarantee you won't get pregnant though
A girl being a virgin is usually seen as an added bonus for younger guys, like if a girl chooses a guy to be her first lover it is viewed as a massive compliment.
No, the opposite is true, virgins are prefered by most men, and the more sexual experience you have, the lower your chances at marrying are. Very experienced women only very rarely get a good guy, they mostly end up alone or with a guy who cheats.
You being a virgin is positive for most guys. The self-esteem issues would be problematic, and that's what you need to come up with coping strategies for.
What's weird is the fixation on virginity. It's a subject that's rehashed on this site several times a week. THERE'S NOTHING WEIRD ABOUT BEING A VIRGIN. MOST GUYS COULD CARE LESS IF A GIRL IS A VIRGIN. BEING A VIRGIN IS ENTIRELY THE GIRL'S BUSINESS. Really, folks - there is SO much more to life than worrying about this.
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I'm sure a lot of guys would consider it "rare".
But, that is what makes a diamond so valuable - it is RARE too.
When you find a guy whom is a possible boyfriend, consider just telling him straight out that you have no dating experience. His handling of that little piece of info will teach you a lot about him and his countenance in very short order! If he's thrown by that, it's simply time to move on.
There's nothing wrong or weird about being a virgin. I hate this stigma on virginity that if you have had sex before the age 15 these days, your somehow stuck in the stone age. It's a gift, don't throw it away or just give to anyone out there.
First you have to know what kind of guy you're looking for... long before you should be worrying about any sex stuff. A LOT of things that are easy to do can go bad or create baggage (more mental baggage). Look at all the girls/women you know... if they are in a bad place or having a tough time or even just not getting what you want to get out of life, then they're not a good role model for you.
Not weird. Very attractive. Here's the thing: yes, some guys will lose interest when they learn you're a virgin won't have sex right away. That's their loss and it's a good thing because that's not a guy you need to be with anyway. Stay true to you and when the time and guy is right, it'll be special.
Attractive. Not weird.
I have special thrones in my heart for virgins.
You can't explore together the first times with non-virgins. The bond of first times can't be shared with them. The more experienced with sex they are.
But I don't mind non-virgins, we all human.
I wouldn't know she was a virgin unless she told me. I don't think it's weird at all. There are tons of guys that would want to be with a virgin. To me that doesn't make her attractive, her general appearance is what I find attractive. I could care less if she's fucked someone else or not
I honestly know how you feel. Finding someone to truly care about and be totally open with, feels like it’s impossible. However, once you find that special person it won’t matter on how much or how little experience you have. You see that person will accept you for who you are.
I think a single woman who's never married and isn't a virgin is already weird to me, she could have herpes or warts. If a girl is 19 and a virgin never married I hope that some 18 year old guy finds a girl like her cause here in westernized nations an adult woman who's a virgin is harder to get than winning the lottery or becoming president.
She would still be Attractive to a lot of Guys, You should try saying "Yes" to the Guys you like.
A lot of people like me don't even get asked out so thinking your not good enough is a poor excuse to reject someone.
You can easily start making yourself feel better about yourself just by saying "Yes" to the Guys you like that ask you out.
You really do need to work on your insecurities and shyness issues first.
A woman who is almost in her twenties is like finding a unicorn. Don’t worry about that and just work on enjoying life!
As for beauty. The majority of that is your personality!
ahaha same girl but no guy likes me though 🤣
It’s weird, I don’t feel very attractive but I often (I swear last week 4guys just came up to me to get my number) get asked for my contact 🥲
Just get naked and you might feel better about yourself.
Its fine just tell the guy you don't have sex for a couple months an you will find a guy who will be willing to wait just dont tell him on 1st date your a virgin or he will pretend he likes you then try to get you to bed an always have dates I public busy places an make shure a friend is at a table around your if a movie have a friend there further away an never let him pick you up go to where date is with a friend cuz this way you get a ride home with a safe person you trust
There ain't nothing weird about being a virgin! But if you are 19 years old and you are a virgin good for you go to college wait until you graduate from college to lose that virginity cuz sometimes when a woman loses her virginity she gets pregnant it's best to wait unless you're in a hurry to lose your virginity then I will help you do that if that's what you want I can't guarantee you won't get pregnant though
A girl being a virgin is usually seen as an added bonus for younger guys, like if a girl chooses a guy to be her first lover it is viewed as a massive compliment.
No, the opposite is true, virgins are prefered by most men, and the more sexual experience you have, the lower your chances at marrying are. Very experienced women only very rarely get a good guy, they mostly end up alone or with a guy who cheats.
You being a virgin is positive for most guys. The self-esteem issues would be problematic, and that's what you need to come up with coping strategies for.
Not weird at all , exceedingly attractive , it is a personal choice not an age competition , of course its attractive , absolutely.
Most guys prefer a virgin over a ho, so don't worry, a man is like a key, a woman is like a lock.
What's weird is the fixation on virginity.
It's a subject that's rehashed on this site several times a week.
THERE'S NOTHING WEIRD ABOUT BEING A VIRGIN.
MOST GUYS COULD CARE LESS IF A GIRL IS A VIRGIN.
BEING A VIRGIN IS ENTIRELY THE GIRL'S BUSINESS.
Really, folks - there is SO much more to life than worrying about this.