Which couple you think has better dynamics.. extroverted guy / introverted girl.. Or... extroverted girl / introverted guy?

[Rockstarrrrr]

extroverted guy / introverted girl

extroverted girl / introverted guy

Neutral

[Curmudgeon]

One would think it would be the extroverted guy and the introverted girl, the guy having to usually take the initiative and all that? And the lonely and "InCel" guys are introverted, yes?

[Rockstarrrrr]

Well I think introverted girls are much more work than introverted guys... And usually the guy is the one who leads and initiate most things so when the girl is also introverted it's extra work and everything is one sided... And when the girl is more extroverted and the guy is introverted... It's good for the girl because it gives her more space to become initiative and assertive... and good for the guy because it makes it more fun and exciting and balanced as the girl is not always predictable... I don't know about the incels haha 😅... I mean not all of them are lonely and introverted and introverted doesn't necessarily mean lonely lol

[Guy13]

Extroverted girl and introverted guy is more normal and more accepted.

[Rockstarrrrr]

That's probably true

[Curmudgeon]

Really? I would think it would be the other way around, the guy having to usually take the initiative and all that.

[Guy13]

@Curmudgeon Nah. Yes guy takes the initiative but lead from the backseat as Chatty Cathy firms you the relationships and those people go, “damn, she married you why.. she’s a real asset…you must not be the same Bastard we know at work when you are home…”

[Curmudgeon]

@Guy13 Interesting, but isn't she still the adjunct person in that situation?

[Guy13]

@Curmudgeon I think you are underselling or under-utilization of Resource is an issue.
SO what Adjunct !!!-doesn't mean she can not lead in her strengths and I think one of them (girlfriend) is OCD organization which allows a guy to be emotionally available and work horse. The one I'm talking about fits Proverbs wifey... search and check it out one time. Here, takes the affairs, trust you with money you're tighter than me landlord...
Only subordinate because she chooses to be an arm grabber rather than an arm puller. Quite capable on her own !!

[Curmudgeon]

@Guy13 Fair enough - food for thought.

[DancingQueen16]

I think two introverts can be together like I'm an introvert and so is my boyfriend

[Twalli]

Based on my relationship, it's best if the guy is more of an introvert.

[Anonymous]

Both A and B.