Guys, Soo, I have bit of a problem.. I need honesty and HELP? How should I feel about my boyfriend telling his girl cousin “ if they wasn’t cousins?

[Anonymous]

he would’ve tried to talk to her “? Since then I had very little trust issues

[Avicenna]

He may just have been trying to compliment her. I agree that it was something he should never have said, but it doesn't mean he wants to cheat or doesn't want to be with you.

[Anonymous]

You should feel insulted and dump him.

[Asker]

how old are you?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm 24.

[Asker]

aaahhh, okay… well I took him back, he said that was waaaay before my time but it seems fishy like why would you text a girl cousin that…

[Asker]

that still been on my mind for 11 months now a lot of other things going on. i have trust issues, and I’ve asked him to leave several times just so I can get myself together but he doesn’t wanna leave no matter how many times we argue fight and fuss he’s still determined to stay. Now I’m dealing with other things, cut off family for him and some friends. My life is rough right now because I’m dealing with him not working and we have bills. Almost lost my car cause he offered to help and support me and my daughter but nothings approving now we gotta go to a blood bank to donate blood just for money to pay my car payment. I can struggle on my own man I don’t need no baggage holding me back you feel me? What’s your opinion on all of this

[Opinion Owner]

Be careful.

[Asker]

why do you say that?

[Opinion Owner]

Because he wants to bang his Cousin.

[Asker]

🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[Staximus]

Tell that bum to get a fucking job

[Tekashi_Rosas]

I feel like this a was discreet way of him saying


“even tho we are cousins and all that, do you wanna try it out?”
And if nothing happened then I guess he got denied his shot.

[Guy13]

Not following.

[Asker]

he texted his girl cousin and said “ if they wasn’t cousins he would’ve tried to talk to her”

[Guy13]

Oh, he has a crush on his cousin? What did you do with that?

[Asker]

ignored it like a dummy, now I’m suffering.

[Guy13]

Well damn. At least there were no babies involved…right?