What's the point of falling in love when me and a woman can't say we knew each other when we were young?

[LonelyAndBig]

That is a big reason why I want a woman without a romantic past. When me and a woman meet, I will be 28 (or older). We can no longer say we knew each other when we were young or spent our youth together.

In addition, you don't quite love the same as your first. It is not as intense and one's heart is usually more guarded.

[AsaKyo]

How many times are you gonna whine about this? Almost everyone has had some kind of romantic past at some point. The only people you'd find who haven't had one are people who barely walk outdoors, are so focused on their studies that they don't care about anything else, or some teenagers (which is pedophilia by the way). So unless you can find any of those three (hopefully not the third), you're just gonna have to put on your big boy boxers and just suck it up. Most, if not everyone is gonna have a past. If you can't get past that, then oh well, guess you'll be lonely forever.

[LonelyAndBig]

What about a woman who is 18, 19, or even 20?

[HollyK21]

What’s the point in dating a woman without a romantic past if you didn’t fall in love with her when you were younger? With that approach to dating you’re gonna be lonely for the rest of your life because you’ll never be younger than you are now.

[LonelyAndBig]

But at least I can look for a woman who hasn't experienced that young love with someone else. It doesn't solve the problem completely, but It helps.

[HollyK21]

How can she experience young love with you when you’re nearly 30? That ship has sailed.

[LonelyAndBig]

Well at least I can look for a woman that hasn't experienced that with someone else.

[Berethor]

There are some older girls that don't have a slutty past, but yea young girls tend to have less baggage.

[Anonymous]

It’s never gonna happen, you’re almost 30 and ain’t getting any younger… there‘s no way that you’re ever going to be able to meet someone “while you’re still young”. Just be realistic please, don’t go after young girls either

[Anonymous]

Be prepared to be alone for the rest of your life. You are 28 and still acting like a 12-year-old.

[77five]

Thats exactly why he wants a teen. This man is developmentally stunted. I just feel bad for the young girls who won't know any better to avoid him.

[Anonymous]

To enjoy being with that person… You seriously need help.

[AsaKyo]

He really does smh

[maximumpower]

What?