How to attract women when shy?

[Anonymous]

As I got older this kinda started to bother me a little more I’ve always felt like I was an attractive dude but I seen to never get with women due to my shyness and my inability to hold interesting conversations in text. Surprisingly I’m good once we’re on a date but I never go all the way unless the girl pretty much rapes me (not literally) I’ve had sex with 2 women and the only reason I did was because those girls were players and pretty much said F me now! And I do because I really want to and both those girls were my girlfriends for some time but on tinder and I have platinum for about 4 months now I can’t get a date and in real life I’m always scared to ask a girl on a date and if I get the date even though I’m sure it will go good I suck at closing as I’m going in for the kiss or anything further. Any advice to get this shyness out of me. Even some small steps to get future confidence I feel myself getting a bit old and I know I’m in my prime we’re I should be getting plenty of girls.

[Jamie05rhs]

What happened to the girls that you had sex with? Why are you not still with them (one of them)?

[Asker]

So the first one I didn’t like at all she just threw herself on me. And the second one I really liked a lot but she was a pretty much a millionaire and dumped me because she realized that I couldn’t support her the way she wanted me too. I didn’t have a job at the time and she was making well over 200k a year. The girls I’ve taken on dates and didn’t close on I felt like we’re perfect but my shyness got the best of me. Both of those girl were my girlfriend for some time

[Asker]

The second one was insanely out of my league and she had two kids

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay. I have to admit something to you: Please forgive me. My question was a setup.

[Jamie05rhs]

See, this is why I don't have sex before marriage. You have to vet there women before you le them have your D. Your D is special, bro. Be proud of it. Don't sell yourself short. Don't give it away to just anyone.

[Asker]

I feel you man I like your response I guess I’ll just wait for the one to accept me for who I am. Just a note the second chick asked me to find a girl for a threesome and I couldn’t even do that. I always loose women in that beginning talking stage. Both girls were supper engaging even when I had nothing to say because they really wanted me

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks, man.

Well, can I give you some real talk? Ok? I don't think they really wanted you. They just wanted to have SEX with you. There's a difference. Ya know?

[Jamie05rhs]

And yeah, wait for the one who really loves you. I definitely agree with that.

[Anonymous]

Different women are attracted to different things, so there is no magic formula.

[Anonymous]

Lie. Lie a lot!

[Fuentes]

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