I messaged my crush and she left me on seen. Now what? Do I message her again?

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

Your biggest mistake is texting her and expecting her to care. It is probably one text out of dozens.

[Asker]

So she sees me as another thirsty guy

[Anonymous]

What did you say specifically?

[Asker]

I asked how she has been

[Opinion Owner]

Oh okay, well I think it’s either one of two things. She either opened it and got distracted, like being busy with something. Or she isn’t interested in talking, which could be for various reasons, even already talking/dating someone. In any case, you don’t need to double message. She saw what you’d sent and it’s still in her Inbox, so if she isn’t responding then leave it alone.

[Asker]

But I want her to know I like her. How can I give up so easily? Girls like it when a guy puts in effort like Noah in the notebook

[Opinion Owner]

It’s not giving up and this isn’t a movie. If she left you on read, there’s a reason for it.

[Asker]

It’s not a movie but lessons can be learned from movies.

[Asker]

https://youtu.be/cyFsCwDNzC4

[Opinion Owner]

True, but in the notebook, Noah pursued Allie so consistently AFTER they’d already fallen in love and been in a relationship. With this woman you’re simply trying to relay interest, with no romantic background. The thing about double messaging is that you don’t want her to feel pressured or obligated to respond. She’s seen your message and she has her reasons for not responding. Like what if she has a guy she’s already interested in and is respecting him? What if she’s just doesn’t want to talk to you? You have to think of the broader spectrum of things and not as if you’re in a movie all the time.

[Asker]

Watch the movie again because Noah pursued Allie and even without them knowing each other.

[Opinion Owner]

Did you see anything else I said?

[Asker]

Yea you want me to give up but I don’t want to give up

[Opinion Owner]

Its not giving up if she doesn’t want to talk to you. She’s not dumb she can read and chose not to respond. Don’t make her feel pressured to respond, I don't know why you don’t understand that.

[Avicenna]

do you see her IRL? If so, talk to her.