Confused about him?

[jade01291]

Hello everyone, I need an honest opinion. There is this guy that I've been interested in for a while, however, I just don't feel like we'll be good for each other in terms of a long-term relationship so I don't feel like pursuing anything with him, as for a casual relationship I wouldn't mind it. We've had sex once, and after that, we'd keep up with like sexting and stuff but he didn't pursue me sexually after that one time. He wanted to hang out or go out for food instead... and I'm just curious as to why he keeps withholding the sex from me? I openly asked him over text... not in person because I feel like it's a nerve-wracking conversation to have in person. I don't want to think he's not sexually attracted to me because he still asks me for nudes, videos, etc. Can there be something wrong with me? I've never met a grown man who refuses sex from someone whos willing to give it. Can he be gay? I'm so confused. I've tried to go no contact with him but he seems to pop in every week and message me/ try to get my attention somehow. Has anyone been in a similar situation?
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[spartan55]

Maybe he thinks you will want a relationship and he doesn't. Maybe he doesn't know you want to keep fucking him.

[jade01291]

But we had the talk already, I told him im not looking for anything serious at all.

[spartan55]

He may not believe you.

[jade01291]

I've shown no signs that I want a relationship. I dont even message him first lol

[spartan55]

You messaging first means you want a relationship?

[jade01291]

Nah, lol but it def does show that you have an interest

[spartan55]

That's what you girls think anyway.

[jade01291]

Lmao, who. hurt you?

[spartan55]

Uh... no one?