Why would he ask me to be his girlfriend then block me.. Im so done with love. What could've went wrong when we were hitting it off?

[Paulalove98]

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What's weird is now im unblocked on Instagram from him but no message or word from him.. im just going on with my life though because lifes too short to keep dwelling over someone who won't even care to give an explanation and respect for why they don't want to be with me.

[ohsheeT]

Your kidding me he did that. I'm so sorry I know you don't see or feel it right now
And I know this is the last thing in the world you want to hear but down deep you have all your answers . you know this gs before they even happen. I always hate bugging you with a lot of my answers to you.

But maybe one day you will not be so afraid of what I'm trying to tell you maybe one day you will stop fighting yourself and open that door and be free from all that you put yourself through I know your a very good person
And you deserve to be happy but you are always blocking yourself. I will keep trying because I hate seeing you go through all of this maybe one day I will say the right word and you will understand and it will all come together for you

As for your question it's not easy but let it go don't beat yourself up over it it was just meant to be that way it was supposed to teach you something that you're missing it's about you and your heart it's about you and your happiness you have to understand first you have to become happy with yourself all of you you have to become one with yourself when you could do this and be on top of that that's when Life Starts that happiness within you radiates to other people you start becoming more one with everybody and it grows from there

[ohsheeT]

I guess we'd have to know you to figure that question out

[RavVid]

I am wondering if he asked you to be his girlfriend to get sex and then afterwards it was onto the next girl.

I think you said below you met online and maybe you never were in the same room.

Very definitely he was game playing and I would think some scalp collecting of some sort in this. Online stuff facilitates assholes.

[Paulalove98]

Yeah we didn't meet face to face, it was through bumble and we matched and exchanged instagrams and started talking then we talked on the phone for hours and literally i thought we were clicking because we seemed to have a lot in common and relate to one another then he asked me to be his and i said yes because i wanted to take a shot at this and i was stoked and joyed and everything was fine till i got home from work yesterday and saw i was blocked on instagram and my phone number then oddly he unblocks me for some weird reason late last night, has the nerve to view my story but say nothing! So strange...

[RavVid]

He is playing a game and you are the pawn. Move on.

[melanieeeB]

He probably wanted to see if he could get you and when you said yes, he reached his goal and that's it... I assume, cause that's what my cousin would tell me, when I got ghosted after being asked for dates in the past

[AsaKyo]

Maybe he secretly already had a girlfriend or wife and she ended up finding out about you and made him block you

[Sandeeppingping]

He's 18 bruv that dude would be wild to have a wife😂😂😂or mashallah brother?

[FilmGuy93]

Wait, was this the 18 year old? It sounds like he saw things were getting serious and he freaked out. Immature people are infamous for being out of touch with their emotions.

[Paulalove98]

True. Whats super weird is late last night i saw i was no longer blocked and he didn't message me BUT had the nerve to view my story.

[AddylynnNightingale]

What an idiot. He missed his shot with you. How long did you know him for?

[NamerOfStars]

That's weird- were you blocked on more than one platform, so you know it's not a mistake or a glitch of some kind?

It sucks in any case.

[Paulalove98]

I can't reach him on his number either and his photo shows on instagram but says user and won't show his full profile anymore... when his phone rings its only once and goes straight to voice mail

[NamerOfStars]

Yeah, that's probably not just a mistake, then. Tough break.

[Onlyonceatime]

Maybe he did not want anything emotional, or he got frightened.

[Havthrills]

How long were you together? What did he block you on? Is he typically an a-hole? Do you have a picture? Throwing in lots of questions. Lol. Ther was no fight?

[Paulalove98]

No fight at all and we had a great conversation on the phone last night and he said he really really liked me then i got home from work and saw i was blocked on everything. I feel so in distraught and broken😞

[Havthrills]

Did you see everything he had before? Like is he hiding or deleting his accounts? When are you supposed to talk to him again?

[NathanDavis]

do you know him in person... or just online?

[Paulalove98]

Just online.

[NathanDavis]

well, that's one of the biggest risks when you reach people online and just online... some will just do that, ghost you and forget about you so... be aware and careful of those things

[pizzalovershouse]

He was a jerk so there guys that way an guys good so just takes time to find a good 1

[RangerBlue22]

I warned you about this. I know your hurting right now but you jumped on this way too fast.

[Juxtapose]

I pretty much had this happen to me recently only I got ghosted hardcore.

It's going to happen to you again and again, you'll get used to it eventually.

[TroyDT]

1. Why? Because he's childish.
2. Why be done with love? The guy does not represent every man out there.

[JPresidente]

Could be you said something that made him mad or you turned him down for sex.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Cause your dealing with the wrong type of guys and im so sorry you had to go through this. How long did you know him

[YourNightOwl]

Wrong guy Hun. I never abandon girls. We remain friends, and if things click, whatever she wants.

[Adogdog]

People are crazy 🤣🤣 I don't have much luck either.

[Th3ft]

Oh no! I’m so sorry!

[Th3ft]

Make sure you demand a good explanation! I do t care how sweet he is or how good the sex was if he is gonna drop you like that and then not offer an explanation about it he isn’t worth your time or your love.

[BJP21]

Probably dealing with a cheater.

[BLP11520]

Sorry to hear this, no explanation?

[Paulalove98]

Literally nothing and it seemed like we were hitting it off and things were going well. I feel done😞

[Jong1995]

Don't worry if you haven't gone for other important reasons why you always lose

[BLP11520]

That stinks

[Anonymous]

wow not sure its crazy