We were in the car and he mentioned we should get pizza this week. I told him “hmm you want get me fat huh” keep in mind he has gain 20 pounds ever since he stopped working because he got injured and I been trying to get in shape too. I have gain a couple of pounds but not as much. I always been skinny 110 and now I’m 120 . I honestly don’t know how he sees me but now I’m starting to think he looks at me as “chubby” why? Because I continue to tell him. Would you care if I gain more weight or be fat and he said I don't know , no. I asked him how do you not know. I told him If he would see me attractive still and he started to get so bothered calling me annoying. I told him honestly if you asked me if you gained 30 more pounds I’ll try to prevent that from happening. At one point I said “why are you so bothered talking about if you would still find mw attractive if I was fat., you probably see me as chubby “ I SHOULD HAVE NEVER SAID THAT because he went off saying “NO I DONT SEE YOU CHUBBY OR FAT” but after staying quiet he happens to reply to this. Now he makes mw feel like he seems me as chubby. I told him I can’t never talk to you about anything. And that I was never calling myself fat. At the end he was just angry because my topic was annoying. Apparently is bad to ask about this. Am I wrong?
My boyfriend and I got into it just bc I asked him if he would be attractive to be if I got fat or gain more weight. WHY DID HE GET MAD?
