Why is it when a guy and I break up I think is because I’m not attractive to him is this accurate?

[Nicolemare7]

[Finchie40]

Attraction is part of why we end up with someone but it’s more than just attraction it’s the chemistry and connection we have with someone as well , Me personally wouldn’t get into a relationship with a girl just because I find her beautiful on the outside , I get into a relationship with her because we have great chemistry and connection as well , but in time that chemistry and connection can fade once we really get to know someone and we realize we really don’t have much in common with that person , so more than likely you aren’t breaking up because he thinks you aren’t attractive. For us guys a girl’s beauty is a big part of why we like a girl we are very visual when it comes to seeing a girl that we are interested in but next to her beauty is her personality and the chemistry and connection we have with her , I can’t speak for all guys but a majority of us won’t commit to a girl if we don’t find her beautiful and loving and caring , so as for
You, you shouldn’t think you aren’t attractive , you are only being your own worst enemy by thinking that way

[Guy13]

No it is not. You are overreacting and overthinking. We don’t date and spend money on women that are not attractive to us.

[Stevepro68]

It's never that simple unless the guy is extremely toxic and superficial. If that is the case you are better off anyways.

[RyanDeal009876]

He may be attracted to you, but he found another person he's more attracted to in some way.

[Nicolemare7]

Could it be something about her personality he likes more?

[RyanDeal009876]

I don't know the details, but sometimes different people want different things.
They try a person out and for a while it's good, but then they choose somebody different because they think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. They're indecisive and have trouble sticking to a commitment.

[AviatorTom]

There are many reasons why people break up. Lack of attractiveness is not near the top of the list.

[TroyDT]

Not necessarily. You could be stunning, but if the compatibility is not there it can be like trying to drive a car with four flat tires.

[Twalli]

You may not be, but it's not that you are no longer physically appealing to him.

[KrakenAttackin]

You may be physically attractive but perhaps too neurotic or otherwise mental.

[noohair]

Post a picture for my guess.

[EaterPeter]

It is accurate in the sense you think that way

[Guardian45]

NOPE!