Is it stupid that because my crush isn’t as into me as I am him I assume it’s my fault for not being fit / pretty enough?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

It’s good gym motivation though cause we go to the same gym 😭

[MrOracle]

More than likely, he's just a busy guy with lots of demands for his attention. Most guys have lots of responsibilities and they value what little rest they get. Generally, guys prefer to talk in person, because texting takes a lot of time and attention, and is a slow way to communicate.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your very fit and pretty. Don't do this to yourself your can't control the actions of someone else and its really unhealthy for you to blame yourself for how someone else feels. Bedsides, if he can't see you for the beautiful person you are then that his loss

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thanks for the MHO

[ShesRad80]

no i think its pretty normal to internalize rejection no matter what his reason is. could be a number of reasons why he is not interested just keep that in mind

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

He said he was interested and that it’s nothing to do with me but he’s lying. He spoken to me since march replying once per week & didn’t once ask me out. Whenever I initiated he would say yes then back down. Definitely not the behaviour of someone interested but hey there’s someone else out there I guess

[ShesRad80]

you dont look unfit at all from what i see or not cute enough?, but yes- there def is girl and you might meet someone else while at the gym. everything we go through leads us into where we are meant to be, keep going strong 💕💕👍

[SnowedIn]

It's not stupid but it's not rational. Especially since, well, he's a crush. In that case perhaps if he's into you at all you should be grateful.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I mean I should look at it this way. The guys I have turned down. They certainly didn’t sit around sad about it wondering if it was their looks so maybe I’m just being a baby thinking like this. He didn’t say he didn’t like me but I could tell it was time to move on

[SnowedIn]

It's not your looks.

[Billlewis]

Based on your profile picture, I don't think you have to worry about that:)

[andy530]

Yeah it isn’t your fault

[Guardian45]

If that's your PP, then that's NOT your problem!

[jjj101010]

Ur fit don’t worry