Why are guys only staring at me and not approaching?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been told I’m pretty by guys but I’m most often push to the side when it comes to dating. Im noticing that Guys would stare at me but don’t talk to me (only after a while if we see each other over and over). Sometimes they would stare but approach a different girl instead. I know I’m not the best looking but i don’t think I'm the worst either. But even with being ugly dating shouldn’t be this hard. Now I’m questioning all the compliments And really starting to feel like I’ve always been just ugly.

[D-Pad_Chad]

So essentially you're feeling the sting of everything a man goes through, sucks don't it.

That aside, truth is a lot of guys, I believe over half now, are refusing to approach any women, regardless of looks. Enough women have called men creepy for approaching them, filed false rape allegations, and dragged men through divorce courts (seriously for some it's a business model) that we realize the juice isn't worth the squeeze.

I know it's not all women, but enough have that men aren't going to, for the most part approach. You're better off trying to approach them honestly.

[D-Pad_Chad]

To follow up on this here are a few short videos basically reiterating what I wote.

Answer to your question:
youtube.com/shorts/RQLtF_JeJVM?feature=share

The expectation issue:
youtube.com/shorts/7sczr5ZcY0A?feature=share

Again another video talking about the brick wall we hit when approaching women, thus we stopped:
youtube.com/shorts/p1jZKhPa6OA?feature=share

I know I probably came off harsh, but truth is approaching is going to be on women nowadays, most men are done with games.

[DavidRaul]

Maybe you are really beautiful making all those guys think that you are way out of their league.

[Snakeyes7]

I guarantee you that the vast majority of them are assuming you are already taken.

[LemiaOfThunder]

Too shy or Just fine attractive.