Can you actually fall in love with a woman if she's fat and 'imperfect'?

[Anonymous]

I know men like women like me for sex and fun, but i've never been in a truly loving relationship before. And i'm starting to wonder if it really is the 'ol body of mine...

[LisaLisa89]

I don't think that you'll find many people who are "perfect". I'm not.

Falling in love is with the person, and not their body - the body might help but it's the person themselves that's important.

I'm guessing from your question that you consider yourself fat. However, you also say that men enjoy having sex with you. You must be doing something right, and so just being yourself and ignoring what you consider to be imperfections should go a long way. And maybe you just haven't met the right guy yet.

I know that my body is not perfect. I know that some men like women who are curvier than me - and my chest is almost as flat as a board! That's not my only "imperfection", as I sometimes have an embarrassing problem with bedwetting at night.

You say that you are between 18 and 24. At your age I had never done anything sexual, because I was too scared. I was 28 when I found the right man. We loved each other as people, and body image and perfection didn't come into it.

He's now my husband. My body still is not "perfect", and I'm sure that in the eyes of stereotypical women his isn't either, but our relationship is with each other as people.

Don't give up - you will find the perfect man eventually, and in his eyes you will be perfect too. Trust me, it's worth the wait.

[jennifer_bloom]

Your obsession with ugly people shows you do not know the difference between an animal and a human being because you think people are worthless if you don’t have sex with them.

[ohsheeT]

You know one of the best things about life is everyday we experience new things and we have to experience new things to understand them so you just had an aha moment maybe experience that experience your body changing you can always change it back if you don't like it but you have to experience it to understand it you have to become it you have to see how everything changes when you change make every experience in your life a beautiful experience that's what life is all about we make choices and we experience things every time we experience something we understand it better we become it even better we make choices where you like it or we don't like it but let's least we got to experience it you can't say anything until you experience that because you don't know so go for it it's called living life take on every new experience that you possibly can because that's what life is all about becoming the best you can become and you have to experience that to understand it just like with love you have to experience love the depth of love that you're looking for for you to understand it and give it

[Anonymous]

Of course. But looks do matter regardless of what people would have you believe. The uglier and fatter a person is the better person a person has to be, the harder the person better work. But when heftier and less aesthically pleasing fail at securing relationships you can typically chalk it up to 2 things. 1. They are punching above thier weight. If you have a deficit in the marketability dept. You need to accept that and search for a partner more on your level. So many women don't want to do that. 2. They simply don't want to put out any effort, or at least minimal effort. When you're marketability is low you have to sell yourself more. The buyers aren't always going to come to you. a lot of the time you have to go to the buyers.

[Billlewis]

Number one, if she's fat, that makes her perfect automatically, in my opinion.

[exitseven]

Nobody is perfect. If you are overweight you can make the situation better, Get an exercise program going.

[FunkyMonkee]

Yeah! I did, a couple times and know of several others that fell in love and even married huge blobs!!

[BJP21]

Is she single? Is she available? Is she compatible? Can she turn me on? Then yes of course.

Even if you are "Fat" thats more of you a boyfriend can love on.

[SomeJokeTeeth]

Yeah, if I feel in love with her then she's perfect to me right?

[jshm2]

No one is "perfect," kiddo, don't be so hard on yourself.

[ChattyGuy43]

I always fall for a woman that's "imperfect" I just seen to find them more than they fnd me

[Anonymous]

I will date women who are 10-15 pounds overweight but I am not attracted to chicks who are lardulent.

[Jamie05rhs]

You're probably right. You should look into joining a gym.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

I can’t tell how fat a woman is, but I’m sure some women I dated were overweight.

[krisluv]

But of course, all women have a beauty in them and their is always good in the heart..

[Anonymous]

Yes there are men in loving relationships with bigger women. Your weight doesn’t affect how much someone loves you.

[Anonymous]

Yup. I actually prefer plus size over skinny.

[Emanon25]

Sure I don’t see why not

[jamartheg]

I don’t fall in love

[dudeinohio]

I absolutely can.

[Anonymous]

Gross 🤢🤢🤢