I like someone at work but I have no idea if I should flirt with her or keep at bay?
Have you ever done something like this?
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Trending & News I like someone at work but I have no idea if I should flirt with her or keep at bay?
Have you ever done something like this?
Why in the world would you want to make a fool of yourself by doing that? That is beyond scraping the bottom of the barrel. And you work with her? Even dumber when others notice.
Do not mess around with people in a relationship and definitely don’t mess around with people who are cheating. They won’t respect you and you can have some angry partners coming after you.
I guess you’re considering it because she’s so easy. Very bad idea.
No, not cause she'd easy I think because I am starting to like her and I rarely talk to any other woman besides her
Lol so she has a boyfriend who is married. She is already bad news. I mean unless that was an agreed upon situation where the wife is ok with "sharing", that isn't a good situation to be in at all.
I would not recommend pursuing this chick at all. Keep at bay and find a girl worth pursuing. Even as friends with benefits, there are better options. If she is willing to get involved with a married man and risk breaking up his marriage, she's not worth messing around with. She likely would not be too loyal to you either. She'd probably mess with you and half the town as well.
Leave this situation alone and find a different girl to get flirty with.
I’ve seen some desperate men on here but at least most try to hide their desperation. If you have low self esteem, considered ugly by most women, and aren’t that well off, and aren’t attractive to most women, try to work on yourself instead of taking the easy way out. This is why men say women have high standards. No, it’s becuase even if we aren't desirable in one way, for example if we are considered ugly, we work on our confidence instead. If we have low self esteem, you can bet we look good or are well off financially. Whereas men, you don’t try to work on yourself.
Wow, call it as it is, girl. So many whiny bitches on GAG. For women, the odds of finding a guy are good, but the good are all odd...
@grierwrange. OMG, that was a hilarious post!
Man I have done this a few times and in the end it just wasted my time. It can feel exciting to get involved with someone you are attracted too and my live life a little bit on the wild side but damn... the emotional capital you have to spend just ain't worth that squeeze.
Thanks coach. And concur. Been that guy with the side girl. Its an extreme emotional drama not worth the pain and torment.
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🤣 how does she find time to juggle 3 men at the same time? 🤔
Good question 🤔
she's a top quality gal... number 1 mistress in town
Been happening for centuries. Thats how boss chicks are
@KrakenAttackin what unrealistic expectations do I have? Since you obviously know me so well. Also I don’t have fuck buddies and the friend zone ain’t real.
@KrakenAttackin usually it's because her expectations are unrealistic. She said so herself. Reminds of the time I'd approach girls at the mall and all of them said they had a boyfriend. Really? I'm no Brad pitt, but I'm not that bad looking. Are they shooting me down because I was a little nervous? Who knows who cares.
@KrakenAttackin listening to some old man in his 40’s complaining about women on their 20’s so so funny to me. You should really worry about women your own age. But they probably don’t want you either. 😂
What is your goal in dating? Just sex, or a relationship?
You shouldn't value her for anything more than the married guy that's taking advantage of what she has to give. I'm basically saying there's a green light for a friend with bennies, but you're going to be entering a shit show if you try to have a relationship with her that's anything too deep.
She doesn't value commitment, but I think you know that and wouldn't even consider snagging her if she did, because it would be impossible if she did and you tried. It being possible says a lot about her and I'm not even there.
Damn, some of the comments about this girl are harsh. I am married and I "dated" this coworker of mine. Honestly man, women who are in love with married men have extreme insecurity and emotional imbalances. Instead of jumping to "office slut", you gotta ask "why".
For my case anyway, she wasn't wanting a bang fest, she just felt safe around a guy who cared about her and wasn't looking to screw her like a lot of single guys want. She suffered sexual abuse at and early age and was afraid of relationships because it involved sex as an expectation. But funny how quick people are to judge...
Point is, this woman has some severe emotional challenges that you're overlooking because you have a short sighted vision. You dont see her as a lifelong partner. you're thinking she may be fun or a good "pump and dump", which i think speaks more about your character than hers.
Why would you want to bang a girl that isn’t sure on what she wants? Why would you want to bang a girl that already has 2 cocks inside her? I don’t care how hot someone is she has no morals and is an absolute whore , Value yourself my friend and realize there are girls out there that just want one cock inside her
Aww okay 🥺
You don’t have to say awww lol I am just giving advice my man you do what’s best for you , I am just saying what I would do in that situation , I love sex to my man and yes Girl’s can make us do stupid shit because the Power of the hoof takes over us at times lol Learning to control that temptation is not easy for us , when we see a girl that makes us melt cuz she is so hot and attractive and we picture fucking her brains out we tend to lose ourselves and want her like no tomorrow , I have fucked married women that I didn’t know were married until after the fact , those experiences made me really think about how fucked up and selfish people can be and I think of myself being that husband and how horrible that would be if my wife or girlfriend was doing that shit behind my back , cuz I had a wife that did that behind my back which is the reason I am not jumping into a serious relationship with a girl until she Can prove to me that she is loyal and faithful , One thing we got to do for ourselves is to value ourselves and realize you deserve someone that wants you like you want them , This girl you want to bang will not be able to value you because she is selfish , if she is already banging 2 guys all you will be is the 3rd and you more than likely will probably contract an STD because she is a whore , Girls like that need to stay on the streets find a girl that just wants to stay under the sheets with you
doesn't mean she will be interested though? you may get rejected. just sounds like a jerry springer situation the whole way around but none of us can actually tell you what to do
I’d avoid her like the plague! Just remember: if a person will cheat with you, they’ll 100% cheat on you!
Should you make your life way more complicated on the hopes of getting some sex... eh, sure why the hell not. Assuming you like things complicated, go for it... otherwise, nope.
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you have zero experience with storms... so, you... walking into a motherload of a shitstorm is not a good idea, at all
You're probably right honestly
Pull yourself together, man. Don’t share women with other men. That’s what you would be doing. Have some confidence and self-respect. If you you’re so desperate for pussy that you entertain thoughts like this, women can sniff that out and they hate it.
Is this a copypasta 🤔🤔🤔
Cool, but yeah you're right
No. This is a bad idea. Not because she's married, though that might be a different discussion. It's not going to work out for two reasons. First, if she's married and now dating the other guy, she's going to do the same to you. I'm not judging her, there's just a pattern here. You are not going to be Romeo and get her to settle down. Second, any relationship stuff with people work ends horribly. It's always a nightmare. Avoid work relationships like the plague.
She's not married She's dating a married guy 😕😕😕
just snatch her from him. the guy she is dating is married anyway and that makes her a mistress
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She has a boyfriend and is seeing a married guy? She sounds like a train wreck. You don't want to be around when she implodes.
True, but my other head is telling me to stick it in 😏🥺
Pull yourself together, man. Don’t share women with other men. That’s what you would be doing. Have some confidence and self-respect. If you you’re so desperate for pussy that you entertain thoughts like this, women can sniff that out and they hate it.
Is this a copypasta 🤔
Too many layers of drama going on there. She likes married men, and you want to go out with someone at work.
So you wanna pursue someone who not only has a boyfriend but is some dude's mistress, essentially sounds like a chronic cheater.
That's like jumping into the pool of radioactive waste and hoping you don't die. Do yourself a favor and get away from her.
Bro, are you retarded?
(And I mean that in the kindest way possible.)
This skank is dating a MARRIED MAN!
She has ZERO MORALS!
She's COMPLETE TRASH!
NO; you should NOT date her!!!
Yes I have huge crush on 40yr lady at my workplace... she married. I flirted with her she smiled.. than at one day in lift I rub my D on her butt n grab her boobs she moan n than we're friends with benefits secretly...
Damm that's hot as fuck
Yeah I came to know from her friend that she have rape fantasy... so I took risk n risk rewarding now. Lol
NO
I have to type more than just NO to send this so let me say again, NO
... you seriously would consider dating a cheater? If they cheat with you, they will cheat on you.
Let's say you win the girl over
Would you really be able to trust her?
Is she slutty
If your looking just to bang uglies and nothing serious. Then she's perfect
Flirt.
but only date if she's in an open relationship or no longer dating the other dude. The fact that he's married is irrelevant
Just kick your own ass and throw yourself into a car trunk. It's what will happen to you eventually if you think pursuing these sorts of life drama women will get you anywhere.
Damm okay
Find someone that has standards and respect for a relationship. If you willingly date a married man or someone who has a girlfriend then you have no respect for relationships.
Very bad idea. id say don't. As someone else said find someone who respects the boundaries of a relationship.
As long as she's not married, she's fair game. Girls will change boyfriends the way they change panties!!
Yea, she sounds like a slut, I like your chances of hitting it.
If she's married and having an affair, just tell her boyfriend. If you can't then just stay out of it. Cheating is horrible, and I promise you, you don't wanna find yourself entangled in that situation.
Why would u wanna bang her
she's probably banged the entire country
Because I like her
When girl is with there boyfriend they should becareful what they choose to be with becareful if someone is married to ther girlfriend that can lead to cheating on there mate and partner
I say go for it because the upside is you can get what you need from her and she will not be up your ass 24-7 all clingy since she is messing with 2 other guys.
Sounds like her dance cards pretty full, personally I wouldn't want to come in behind the married ahole
You can pursue her, but remember that you would always be #3. It might be better to find an unattached woman for dating.
She's someone side chick and you think she's worth pursuing?
Well I wouldn’t trust her any further than I can throw her if she’s doing that bs. Buyer beware if you pursue.
NO!!! Stay away from someone like that. If she will cheat with someone that shows low morals and she is very likley to cheat on you
Why on earth would you knowingly date a woman who has shown you that she is the kind of person who cheats? 😂😂😂
If you want to date her, invite her to lunch or coffee or a drink. If she declines, do not ask again.
So you want to be third in the batting order? Come on dude.
Go for it I mean she’s already banging 2 dudes might as well add a Third man to bang to the list.
And considering the Very Fact that She is willing to Bang 2 men. I think it’s safe to assume she has no problem taking her panties off and letting Harry Have his way with her harry being you.
Sounds like she doesn't really know what she wants, and just likes the attention
Total trash for a relationship hit it if you must but don't get close to that.
Stay away from her. Don't make her cheat on her husband
Respect her marriage
She's not the one who's married.
Don't ever be included into a cheater girl's list. Don't support her cheating on her boyfriend either. Stay away from her completely. She is a cheater. Friends with benefits is wrong too. Look for some other better girl and a permanent relationship instead of temporary fun which gets you nowhere but gets you out of character which good girls don't like in a guy that they might look to date. Eventually, good girls will get away from you if you keep an unacceptable past
Why in hell would you want this kind of trouble?
Lmao true she's bad for another reason 😅😅😅
I wouldn't even expend the effort to blink in her general direction...
so you're chasing after a whore good to know
Lol no she's a mess and she's at work she's a smut, if anything fuck her and dip but you work with her so it's not a good idea
The key words are "at work", otherwise a fuck buddy would be ideal.
She'll play your heart. Not a good idea.
Find someone else to pursue.
Nothing good can come of this.
I don't think it's the brightest idea
Nah, her morals are none.
You both are bitches in the end. What are you even thinking? 🤦🏻♂️
For what?
Sex? A fling?
Yeah 🥺🥺
I never heard of that kinda situation lol
go ahead
Kk time to ruin my life
Playing with fire. Don't go there.
Really shouldn't pursue people you work with
Yeah, why not they're the only women I talk too
When the relationship goes south, expect HR to get involved. Take it from someone whos been there...
Another troll another day🙄
Not troll just conflicted
She sounds like a skank skeezer
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