Can someone help me write an apology?

[Candyliciousxoxxx]

Can someone help me write an apology? I went off on this guy and called him a liar because he said he didn't have time to date anymore and that he was too busy with work. I said a lot of bad things to him. And I want to apologize via voicemail since he won't pick up the phone.

[AddylynnNightingale]

I can't. If I write one, it won't come from you. I can't spoon feed you words. So the only way I can help just telling you to sit down and write down your honest thoughts about how sorry you are. And when you're done you can just read it out loud on voice mail.

[Candyliciousxoxxx]

I wrote it out and I left a message.

[AddylynnNightingale]

Very good!

[Avicenna]

It's not how you say it, it's that you say it at all. Just leave him a message saying sorry. Do not ask him to call you back because he won't.

[Candyliciousxoxxx]

How do you know he will never talk to me again?

[Avicenna]

It's common sense, really. Look at the impression you made- why would he want to?

[Candyliciousxoxxx]

I apologized for the way that I acted I made a mistake. I mean really are you perfect? No.

[Avicenna]

Well, what do you want to get out of all this?

[Candyliciousxoxxx]

I hope he and I can at least be friends.

[Avicenna]

Before you got angry with him, how long and how did you know him?

[Candyliciousxoxxx]

I met him in July and we went out on our first date in August and I had been going to see him on a weekly basis for a month so three months.

[Avicenna]

And he just decided he didn't have time to date anymore?

[Candyliciousxoxxx]

He had told me once before that he was really focused on work.

[Avicenna]

Well, as I said, it's not the exact words you use, it's how sincere you are. I don't think you need a script, but do makle it clear that you aren't trying to date him again.

Are you sure that wasn't him just ending things when he said he didn't have time to date?

[Candyliciousxoxxx]

I really don't know if he was being honest or not. I assumed he was lying which is why I went off. But I don't really know for sure hence the reason why I apologized.

[Avicenna]

So you've already apologized to him once? And got no response?

[Candyliciousxoxxx]

This was the first time I really apologized.

[Avicenna]

It will tough to overcome that, but just be sincere and honest about what you want

[Guy13]

I lost my composure. I am sorry and I mean it. Please forgive me and call me back so that I can do this in a proper manner

[Guy13]

That make sense?

[bean2k21]

There are like three red flags here. My advice: quit while you're ahead, i. e., not in jail.

[Candyliciousxoxxx]

What's wrong with me apologizing to him via voicemail?

[bean2k21]

In my book it looks like this: 1) You went off 2) You called him a liar 3) He's just trying to work and advance his career 4) You've already apologized. A letter for me would be beyond the breaking point, like I would give you a cease and desist order.

[Candyliciousxoxxx]

I haven't apologized and I haven't sent him a letter. I am saying that I want to apologize to him via voicemail.

[Iron_Man]

Keep calling it will blow over things like this happen. Sooner or later he will pick up

[Candyliciousxoxxx]

Really? How often should I call?

[Iron_Man]

Until he picks up the phone a couple times per day

[Iron_Man]

Maybe more