My boyfriend sometimes goes out and then disappears until the next morning. Last night I had enough and gave him an ultimatum, that if it happens again, I’m out. He said sorry, and that he gets my frustration. What should I say back?
How should I reply to an apology text?
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Don't text about serious things.
You appreciate his apology but this is not normal relationship behaviour, you meant what you said - it's not acceptable, and he needs to really think about what he wants because you simply can't accept this.
"I get your frustration" isn't an apology at all. What do you mean he disappears all night? You don't think he's cheating?
As in, he goes out with his friends and after a couple of texts, stops replying until the next morning. Last night he gave a lame excuse of not looking at his phone for a while, then said that he was sorry. I gave him an ultimatum that if it happens again, it will be over for good.
Why does he need to be texting you when he is out with his friends?
Tell him if it happens again, the relationship is over.
Yes, that’s what I told him. And he replied with “Sorry, I get your frustration” Should I say anything back?
No, leave it at that for now.