How should I reply to an apology text?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend sometimes goes out and then disappears until the next morning. Last night I had enough and gave him an ultimatum, that if it happens again, I’m out. He said sorry, and that he gets my frustration. What should I say back?

[Anonymous]

Don't text about serious things.

You appreciate his apology but this is not normal relationship behaviour, you meant what you said - it's not acceptable, and he needs to really think about what he wants because you simply can't accept this.

[spartan55]

"I get your frustration" isn't an apology at all. What do you mean he disappears all night? You don't think he's cheating?

[Asker]

As in, he goes out with his friends and after a couple of texts, stops replying until the next morning. Last night he gave a lame excuse of not looking at his phone for a while, then said that he was sorry. I gave him an ultimatum that if it happens again, it will be over for good.

[spartan55]

Why does he need to be texting you when he is out with his friends?

[Wise4myage]

Tell him if it happens again, the relationship is over.

[Asker]

Yes, that’s what I told him. And he replied with “Sorry, I get your frustration” Should I say anything back?

[Wise4myage]

No, leave it at that for now.