Girls, When In a relationship with a good guy, do you still find other men handsome?

[Anonymous]

I couldn’t be with a girl that still looked at other guys.
I know I wouldn’t bother looking or caring to look at other women. As they’re not mine.

Yes I would look 👀

No I would no longer care

[PrettyPriya]

No, I don't pay attention to other guys while in a relationship. I am currently engaged. I don't really go out of my way to notice anyone or stare, no matter the gender. I am happy with who I am with. Does that mean I completely avoid contact with guys? No, not possible.

It isn't that hard. For the most part, girls don't sexualize people like guys tend to do. I am not saying all of them do this, but there are enough that sexualize girls. We (most of us) don't do that sort of thing.

I am perfectly happy with the guy that I am with. He is a wonderful man, and I only have eyes for him. He checked all the boxes when we first started dating. No reason for me to fantasize or stare at other guys.

Of course, I can find someone handsome or pretty. That doesn't mean those thoughts go any further than that. I am loyal to my partner. I don't emotional or physically want to cheat on him and never would.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

I'm a people watcher & I'm constantly seeing other handsome fellas, but I'm devoted to my man & don't stray. Plus I'm also checking out the other ladies & pointing them out to my boyfriend.

It's natural to look at other people, but a good partner is hard to come by.

I have a good man, I know he finds other women attractive, but I know at the end of the day that he only has eyes for me & I'm the same way.

If you're looking for someone to never find another human being attractive after they get with you, I'm sorry to say that you're out of luck. There are always better looking people around, but if you're good to your partner, they will be faithful & by your side regardless.

[Asker]

You’re right. Fuck women and dating. If I had a pretty girlfriend I would still be able to tell
Another girl is pretty but it wouldn’t mean anything to me. Like I would have zero interest.

[mandyfire98]

There's no magic button that can be pressed where you just suddenly don't notice attractive people. If you're watching a movie with attractive people and now you're saying you don't see them as being attractive anymore? I think that's disingenuous. Nobody is saying that they're more attractive than your partner but to act like those people are just magically unattractive now?

[LazerBean]

Sure, I can still identify if a male is attractive or not. I don't check them out, though. There's a big difference between the two. Anyone who says that being in a relationship magically makes them unable to know if someone is attractive or not is a liar.

[devilish-cutie]

when im in love i dont actually notice other men but i might think some guy is good looking when i see him but i wouldn't feel anything towards him

[TacosRAwesome]

Yeah. If they're handsome then they're handsome, it's not like they're gonna become ugly once I'm committed. But I'm not a dick about it.