How do I have feelings for my guy friend?

[katestar]

What if he wants to date me?

[RolandCuthbert]

You can't create something you do not have. If you don't like him that way, you don't like him that way.

I am not in the habit of blaming women who have guys in the friendzone. If he is happy there, leave him there.

But if he is unhappy. . . why would you want someone you like to be unhappy? You don't have to date him, but you need to help him otherwise maybe you are not a friend after all.

Try having an honest discussion with him about his feelings. . . and your own.

[katestar]

Really?

[RolandCuthbert]

Yes, really. If he is a good person he would be able to understand where you are coming from. If he doesn't then maybe he is not that great a person. In that case it is your call. But it would be hard to emphasize with you.

[EaterPeter]

Hey, what if I tell you I like you in different way too.

[katestar]

What?

[EaterPeter]

Can we please be more than friends? And if he mentions friends with benefits. Say no silly, much more.

[EaterPeter]

Answer to a wrong question.

[EaterPeter]

This are answers to your other question.

[katestar]

I like that

[EaterPeter]

All the best!

[katestar]

Really? He'll like it?

[EaterPeter]

I hope so

[EaterPeter]

It is nerve wrecking to open up on such topics tho how would we know if we don't try?

[EaterPeter]

My main concern would be what is that you want and what is that he wants. Is he single?

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[katestar]

Yes he's straight and single

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for MHO!

[VIVANT]

You are friends so you already know each other that’s good.. just do as others suggested. Ask him how he feels about expanding the friendship & dating you 💜 can’t go wrong he’ll respect the honest and you’ll get a real answer — if he’s worth friendship or dating 😊😊

[katestar]

He is

[VIVANT]

Ok so woman up and have that talk 👍🏼 💜

[katestar]

What?

[VIVANT]

Gather your courage and Tell him how you feel 😊😊🔜

[katestar]

😌😌😌😌😊😊😊

[VIVANT]

😅🙏🏼

[katestar]

What do you mean by "woman up?"

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Tell him how you feel about him and that you would love to take the friendship to one step up to a relationship

[katestar]

Really?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@katestar 👍

[katestar]

What am I going to wear?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@katestar Sundress or skirt with leggings and blouse

[katestar]

Then what?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@katestar Shoes that are flat or with a heel

[katestar]

Massage him?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@katestar Yes massage him

[katestar]

So. What am I going to do?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@katestar Use your imagination on what would you do

[katestar]

Seduce him?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@katestar se·duce
/səˈd (y) o͞os/
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verb
entice (someone) into sexual activity.

[katestar]

Sorry

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@katestar It's fine

[katestar]

What if he didn't recognize me?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@katestar I'm sure he will

[katestar]

You didn't ask me what is his name

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@katestar What is his name kate?

[katestar]

His name is Brandon thane wilson. He's a actor

[Twalli]

If he wants to date you, and you ask him out, he will agree. If he doesn't he won't. If you don't ask him out you have to hope he does, which he may not regardless of his feelings towards you.

[katestar]

Really?

[Janaedanae]

You have known each other for a long time and y'all know everything about each other being best friends since y'all were teenagers. Since y'all are just friends just ask him how would he feel about dating a friend

[katestar]

Really?

[In_Trance]

rail him and get it over with

[katestar]

What are you talking about?

[CubaPirate]

Girl up and get on with it

[katestar]

Really? How can I do that?

[Summeroflove]

Then date him