Hi I known guy at work about 6 years, in the past few years, things went on etc, kissing fondling etc and his girlfriend saw messages, well fast forward 3 years.
I am now single almost and he still with his girlfriend. But we get on so well as friends, unfortunately both our mums have cancer, kinda drawn us closer.
I have been off work sick quite poorly and he had message me every single day, to see how I am etc , this is unusual he hates msging, his girlfriend don’t know he msgs me at all, he also been to see me and took me out for lunch.
He mentions his girlfriend when I ask saying very bubbly like me, loud like me etc.
Always tells me how well his side business is doing, wants me to see and also invest with him down the line, be part of his business, again girlfriend won’t know.
He not one to show feelings but started opening up more, he says hehe a lot and emojis, and said I am his young totti?
I am older than him.
This is confusing me does he like me as friends, or more and why see me still behind his girlfriend back.
He seems happy with her why I am confused?
Likes me to say I like him too
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he just likes u as his friend
What’s with totti comment and he says about my boobs sometimes.
Just strange messaging every day and not telling his girlfriend ,
he is sexualizing u n he is a jerk for that
thats not how a good friend is supposed to talk
but yea to answer ur question I said he likes u as his friend n possibly he wants to get into ur pants n thats about it
You're old enough to ask him directly
I don’t want it aqward
That said you forgo your rights to ever ask where communication issues stem from in your future relationships