My guy friend does not trust me around his friends?

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My guy and I got into a huge argument a while ago where we didn't end up talking to one another for months. His friends ended up comforting both me and him because in their words, our relationship was one of the best they seen and didn't want to see us leaving on bad terms. They tried to get us to talk again, which after 6 months one of them did and we reconciled.

However, he brings up a comment saying he does not trust me around his guy friends, and he prefers to keep his friends and my friends separated because he thinks his other guy friends (who he no longer speaks to) liked me a lot romantically and took my side because of it. However, no matter how much I try and tell him they were always on his side, and I also got scolded about the argument too from his friends. But he does not believe me and blames me for his friends "abandoning" him, and them liking me very romantically.

I do not believe I showed any interest in his guy friends. I only knew generic stuff about them, one of them was interested but I declined to keep the friendship between me and my guy friend, who I actually had feelings for.

I know it is his issues alone, but he wants to become good friends again after we reconciled, and I told him I wanted to take it slow because I still do not trust him. As at the time of the argument I had also opened up about my feelings for him, he did also have feelings for me until another one of his guy friends were interested in me and I told him about it. He got very angry as I did not know at the time how he felt about me.

If I am being honest I still have feelings for him despite all this. But I know he probably does not. He wants to be good friends again but I cannot trust him, and he does not trust me around his guy friends. I am not sure what to do in my situation other than take things slow and I am not sure what to do about his issues with me?

My guy friend does not trust me around his friends?
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