My boyfriend is a super nice person so why didn't his last relationships last?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

More than likely his ex wasn’t nice , Most girls say they want a nice guy , when they land a nice guy they eventually get bored of him and treat him like shit and decide they want a bad guy , after she leaves the nice guy for the bad guy she then realizes how much better she had it with the. nice guy and tries to get him back , If he is smart he won’t take her back period , Girls on the other hand hold onto their exes more than guys do , A girl puts her ex on a pedestal like he was this amazing person and comparing her new man to him , when a girl constantly talks about her ex to her new man like he was this amazing person she better be prepared to be cheated on or single again , Guys do not want to hear about a girls ex like he was this amazing person, when a girl does that , she is setting herself up for disaster , it’s disrespectful and she shouldn’t be getting into another relationship until she is fully over her ex , I dated a girl that had her exes name Tatted on her ass , I told her to get that removed if she wants to continue dating me , she said he is right where he belongs. , I said well good luck with that and ended it with her , if you can’t move on from an ex you shouldn’t be getting into another relationship , Girls that hold onto their exes have no right meeting a new guy , it’s so disrespectful and degrading

[xColinx]

Could be a million different reasons... relationship dynamics are really complicated.

Probably a natural thing for you to be curious about, but don't speculate too much about stuff in the past that ultimately shouldn't matter for the relationship between you & him. Are you seeing any early red flags?

[alice55]

Maybe he s hiding his real self to you? And would show his true color later ? Or just his girlfriend was a bitch

[NathanDavis]

maybe he was not super nice to everyone, but you?

maybe she was the one not so nice?

maybe they just didn't click?

maybe it was wrong timing and other things besides character did not align well enough?

[spartan55]

Uh, you know there are two people in a relationship, right? His relationship ending likely had little to do with how nice he is.

[abc3643]

Because lots of women want "bad boys" or to be dominated.
Nice guys finish last.
I know; I am one.

[Jamie05rhs]

Probably because he's a super nice person.

A lot of women don't want a man who is kind to them and who treats them with respect. They don't know how to handle it.

[Zolly99999]

His last girlfriend could have been. Nut job.

[Snakeyes7]

Because to a lot of women, "nice" is boring.

[TheSpaceGnome]

probably compatibility issues.

[TroyDT2]

Long term romantic compatibility issues.

[Tomsta]

Maybe ask him that question?

[Anonymous]

Because he's super nice.