My boyfriend used to be so sweet and loving, but he changed?

[Anonymous]

He used to tell me how much he loved me, and always wanna spend time with me. He cried over me and ditched his friends for me. We've been together a year and a half now and we live together. now he goes out all day everyday to get high with his friends, and never wants to be in the same room as me. he sleeps on the couch watching tv all night, and when I ask to cuddle he says he doesn't want to. I just wanna know why he changed but he never has an answer for me. I have a feeling he's cheating because of some emails I found on his phone but he denies it. what are some signs he could be cheating?

[Anonymous]

Maybe he fell out of love? Sometimes if you don't work on a relationship it becomes boring. Or you take each other for granted. Personally, I've seen a lot of older couples 3-4 years into the relationship become like this... the relationship loses the honeymoon phase and both people get bored of each other or place higher value on other things.

My guess would be to spice things up again or break up. I personally think a relationship that works won't really be boring.. it will be tough at times and good at times but never boring.

[bottles13]

He's choosing getting high over being with you? At this point, it doesn't matter. You need to choose wether you want to be loved, or take a back seat to pot. He has made his choice.

[APeaceOfPie4U]

Is your man secretive, does he spend time with you has ask you any questions about marriage or of a long-term relationship if not it is time to A.) Get a better man B.) Show him you don't need him and he's a dime in a dozen C.) Let him know you're fed up and over the BS cause if he really love you he would not make you miserable.

[xoxohotgirl]

to be honest with you he gave up on the relationship you both created but don't let that come between you and your life if you don't feel that the relationship isn't going anywhere anymore to be honest as hard as this is going to sound move on before you really get hurt.

[Anonymous]

He could be cheating most off them are signs he is loosin interest, do what makes you happy cos he's clearly not make you feel happy!

[Be-ask]

Well maybe he isn't the right one and maybe he could be using you for something you should ask his friends or follow him like a stake out