I am a 31 years old men that got out of a relationship with a toxic girlfriend and I want to start dating again but I am facing struggles. I really hope I don't come off as arrogant because I am not but I am considered to be an extremely good looking man which I think coupled with my shy personality is making it hard for me to date. I get very few matches on tinder which made me feel upset. I tried to post a picture of myself on a Facebook group for singles and all the response I was getting accusing me to be a scamner and I am using other models photo. Then I realised that's probably the reason I am not getting matches on tinder. Girls think I am catfish. It is not all in my head as I have been approached by modelling agencies multiple times.
I went clubbing last time and I was dancing and literally a girl that I consider very attractive was giving me signals but I panicked and I didn't make a move and lost my chance.
My question is I am planning to go clubbing this weekend alone. How to make myself more approachable and is it weird to go alone or will I give off creepy vibes. Should I ignore people around me and see which girls come near me then i try to make a move.
I am just worried that it is going to be a failure like last time but I know for sure that I have to do something about it. How to pick up girl in the club?
