He is toxic to me, I'm toxic to him. He hurts me, I hurt him. He forgives me I forgive him. We get back like nothing happened. Should I stay with him?

[Anonymous]

[WonderBell99]

Toxic relationships give us the adrenaline rush that we crave for in life, but they also destroy our spirit and mind and leave us with nothing. Love is not supposed to be toxic, it is something more constant, stable and secure. Kind of like how you feel when you imagine yourself in a green valley filled with flowers and green grasses and looking over the clear, blue sky.

You know the answer and so do I. You need to steer clear of this gentleman and muster up the courage to let him go and let YOURSELF be happy… with someone else.

We are mere internet strangers, and we know nothing about you, him or your relationship, but I know for a fact that I would never stay with someone who is toxic to me. Someone who hurts me either emotionally/physically. That’s not love, that’s just obsession. You are addicted to the person you thought he was. You are in love with the fantasized version of him that you created in your head. In reality, this relationship will not work out and you need to find support systems like friends or family that will help you get over him and move on with your life.

Block him and do not ever go back to him. Do yourself a favor and open yourself to true happiness.

[Cuddlekisser]

Yeah someone being 17 years old giving life advices. Alright.

[WonderBell99]

@Cuddlekisser If you don’t agree with my opinion, move on.

[Cuddlekisser]

Uhm no? First, I don't agree with your opinion. You detected that right. Second, I won't move on. Cope with it. You aren't the boss here.

[WonderBell99]

@Cuddlekisser lmfao. stay mad, I guess.

[Cuddlekisser]

Same to you, honey.

[Gloree]

yeah untill you finally kill each other in like the couple in my town.

his wife stabbed him to death during a quarrel. she ended up in prison because she was pregnant. once baby was born, she faced the firing squad and died.

born baby is up for adoption. I wonder how that child's life will be like especially when the child hears what happened to parents.

you people will never learn that it is best to leave a toxic relationship. you all think a peaceful one is boring. Good luck.

[Asker]

We both are not as violent as you mentioned. I never beaten him, he never beaten me. But he hurt me with words and actions, I hurt him with words and actions. But we still get back and he showers me utmost love on me like he doesn't even care what arguments we had earlier. He forgives me for my mistakes after being angry for a while. While he's angry, he uses vulgar words but when I explain him and understand his anger he starts showering deep love which I cannot be able to reject. He acts toxic with his behaviour. I act toxic with my behaviour. But we understand each other after a while and get back again after we understand each other's affection. Now tell me if I should stay with him?

[Gloree]

same thing in saying. this is how it starts and leads to death. a word is enough for the wise. keep going. the earth is not yet full of graves

[20yearsolder]

Are you bat shit crazy? Fuck no you shouldn't stay. Sounds to me like both of you need to have counseling. If you're in a relationship you're not supposed to hurt each other

[xColinx]

Seems like a tough cycle to break free from, which makes it seem like eventually it doesn't end well.

[BJP21]

There is such as thing as couples counseling just like marriage counseling. Id book it asap before this escalates.

[Passing_by]

No, you shouldn't. The reasons are in your question. As addictive it might be, you need to get out of it.

[slatyb]

No you should get some counseling.

[AddylynnNightingale]

No, but your life.