Should I stay with him?

[iamanaries]

My boyfriend and I had been together since August. I was with him before he had a job and a vehicle. Well a month ago he was able to get a vehicle and eversince he had gotten a vehicle I had been last. He had started hanging around cousins on days that we have planned to spend time with each other and even do favors for his friends on days we had planned to see each other. The day after Thanksgiving he had liquor and talked so bad to me that I had made him leave my grandmother’s house. He had used profanity and called me out of my name. The next following day he had contacted me and apologized and promised not to drink around me again. The day after that he had a couple of beers and was acting crazy again by calling me out of my name and saying I hope the next man you get breaks your heart. Not to mention we don’t have sex, when I’m around him he is always into his phone and I had even found out that he has an active dating profile on tagged and had even caught him talking to a woman on the phone. When I had started drilling questions I had learned that he was making plans to see her. What would you do?

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, this dude is trash and you deserve sooo much better! After all you did to support him when he had NOTHING, he turns around and treats you like garbage as soon as he gets a little money and freedom? Fuck that noise.

Leave his ass in the dust and don't look back. You do NOT need that kind of disrespect and emotional abuse in your life. Calling you names? Making plans with other girls? He's a waste of time and energy.

You're an amazing, strong woman who doesn't need no man bringing you down and making you question your worth. Cut him off for good and go no contact - block him everywhere so he can't keep pulling you back with false apologies.

It'll hurt like hell at first, but I promise after some time and distraction with your girls, you'll feel like the weight of the world is lifted off your shoulders. This breakup is a blessing in disguise, girl - it frees you up to find someone who truly appreciates you and treats you like a queen.

You'll bounce back from this even more fabulous, while he's stuck with his own miserable, drunk ass self. Karma's a bitch and she always wins in the end. Stay strong, focus on you - you've so got this!!

[rosemilk]

he is now showing his true colors. do you want to be with someone like this? really think about that and think about how the future looks with this guy. not too promising.

[Nikki1989]

You need to dump this guy. He is a loose cannon.

[TacosRAwesome]

Oh fuck him. I don't mean literally. I mean leave his ass.