Should I stay with him?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months now.
Things are going great, he has given me a key to his apartment, I spend the night often, we go out on dates, we stay in and cook together and watch our "show".
I have recently realized that I am definitely in love with this man, and he knows it. But he hasn't said "I Love you" yet.
In my head I think that means he doesn't love me, but I'm too afraid to ask him if he does because if he says no or not yet, the imbalance of our feelings for each other will make me feel too bad to stay.
What do I do?

[MelvinGeek]

I personally think 4 months isn't enough to make something official. Also, you claim that he knows that you love him, but I'm going to assume you've never once said it to him either.

Good...
Don't say it.
Don't even ask him.
It's too soon, in my opinion.

I think for a relationship to reach that level, you need *trust* first and foremost. Because if you're doubting that he loves you back simply because he doesn't say it out loud, then perhaps your relationship still needs time. YEARS of time, if you ask me.

If you guys can maintain this relationship of hanging out, cooking together, watching your favorite show, and other platonic things for a VERY LONG time, then believe me when I say that him saying "I love you" will come naturally.

[Adam1978]

Have you said it? You shouldn't worry about so tiny details. If you love him and he treats you well, there is no reason for you to leave.

[Faith18letsgo]

I think just wait. Everyone has a different love language. I like English, but I’ve been with people that like to hold me on their lap, spoon me, or make me food. He may already have said it back to you.

[LexiXide]

I say ask him if he loves you