Is it wrong to sext / date with my mums friends son who I was best friends with as toddlers (we are 22 now.) ?

[Anonymous]

I haven’t seen him since we where abouts 3-4 years old but we have been talking online the past week and we really get along I’ve visited his family around two years ago and I’m going to be visiting them the following to weeks where I’ll see him in person and I think he likes me and wants to date me

[Summeroflove]

It is wrong. Not for the sake that it is your moms friends son per say. But for the reason that you don't want a real relationship. You seem to be in it for sex and sending photos to someone like that who you don't know what he is going to do with them.


It is not wrong to want to date him. But I suppose you could make things awkward if he rejected or you broke up. But by all means. If you really want him. You are both adults. Ask him out and see what he has to say.

I am not saying to pull sneaky shit. But you both can choose since you are both adults to see how things go for a while before you tell everyone that you're dating. That way there is not to cause problems and when you're both ready come out and say it. Or you could come out immediately.


Just talk to him in private and see what he even says. I am sure you're nervous but. If you really like him then give it a shot. I wish you the best.

But you should be wanting more then sex.

[20yearsolder]

Why would it be wrong. Sext Whitney l whoever you want

[Asker]

Cause it’s like a family friend but it’s not like we have been bonding as family in over a decade we barely spoke so I guess it’s not wrong

[20yearsolder]

I don't think it's wrong at all, I think it's a actual benefit because your family is familiar with his family. Seems to me that everybody gets along well. I would think both families would be happy if you two got together

[20yearsolder]

Are you already sexting with him

[josephinelcajon]

Growing up raised by my single mom was best friends with our neighbor (mom and son) and I was best friends and boyfriend with her son from 5 to 18. So why not?

[Ill_made_Knight]

Jimmy and Rosalynn Carter have known each other practically since birth. They were marrried in 1946. He is now 98 and she is 95... Go for it.

[joeldalton]

Nothing wrong with it. Just understand it will cause issues with your mom and her friend if you break up.

[clampfan101]

I understand the concern, but I think it’s fine. 🙂

[FilmGuy93]

It's a little odd, but not wrong.

[Asker]

What’s odd about ir

[FilmGuy93]

Most people don't have sexual attraction for people they've known from such a young age.

[slatyb]

Of course it isn't wrong. Best wishes.

[Drumlin2001]

You're fine, go for it

[Jamie05rhs]

Nothing wrong with that at all. I think it's cute!

[Dinosaursandanime65]

If only everyone was this normal

[In_Trance]

not wrong if you both agree to it

[kareka]

If you want him too go on