I never had a girl I was attracted to with a booty. A friend introduced me to a girl, there’s a connection, but she’s flat as a door. What do I do?

[NinjahRasta]

I hit the gym 6 days a week, practice martial arts, ripped, above average height, charismatic, freelance videographer who loves athletic women with a big booty & good vibes (before it was trendy). I’ve never met one in real life though. The girls I’ve met with a nice 🍑 are unfeminine & btchy. I’m not sure if it’s just me or bc everyone these days just wants a big booty girl so they get passed around a lot and egotistical & bitter. What you think? The blind date is a cute 4 but really cool vibes. I’m a 7-8 and have always compromised what im attracted to my whole life dating women bc connection & accepting them basically assless. I want to get married maybe in another country outside the female supremacist USA but I know I can never do that till I get a big booty girl with a heart. I know “never trust a big butt & a smile” but damn! Keeping it abuck. What should I do? Cold approach more? Grow taller? Be an asshole? Or just never get what I want & settle? even though I work hard everyday especially on my body.

[Avicenna]

Date the one you have the best connection with. That’s what matters.

[NinjahRasta]

Thanks Breda I guess I could make her workout to improve her body for me and her.

[FilmGuy93]

Having a big ass doesn’t mean that the woman will be unpleasant! Lmao it just means you have to be more clear about your boundaries and expectations with women. They love it, honestly. I’ve gotten to a point with women where I straight up tell them exactly what my expectations are from them and I’ve never once had any of them push back.

I don’t use these exact words, but it’s not far off; “my sense of peace is the single most important part of my life. It is more important to me than any single relationship. Bring me peace, and I will love you, cherish you, and do everything in my power to bring you peace. But if you ever stop bringing me peace, you’re gone. Have I made myself clear?”

[Anonymous]

The lady in the picture looks comical 🤣🤣🤣sorry but it sounds like you have a fetish and not a genuine attraction. You care too much about the size of a private area even if the women isn't actually pretty. You need to fix yourself and start getting learning to be a mature adult.

[Opinion Owner]

Are you actually a 7-8? I highly doubt it because attractive guys don't have a problem meeting women. It seems like you need people to set you up on dates 🤣🤣🤣

[NinjahRasta]

Im perfectly fine. You shouldn’t try to ignorantly shame men for their preferences. You should learn to be a mature adult. Not a fetish, instincts. Its a natural attraction for me. Plus it’s sign of fertility, health and discipline. A woman’s body can be shaped with exercise if she takes as much effort in herself as I do.

[Opinion Owner]

Haha it's not a sign of fertility and health. If you want to know your fertility and health that's done through tests not by staring at some random person like a creep.

[Opinion Owner]

I wasn't shaming men... you're not every guy... grow up

[Curiosity2006]

You value booty over inner beauty?

Sorry had to! XDD

[NinjahRasta]

Did you even read the post? I tried lying to myself by putting a woman’s personality above my attraction my whole life. Why I deserve to sacrifice my preferences any longer? Don’t you think I deserve a girl who takes care of her body and is a good person? Or do you not think such a female exists?

[Bethany22]

I 'take care of' my body in order to stay thin, but I don't have a big bum. Does that count?

[Curiosity2006]

Okay. It's just that nobody gets to choose their own body, and it's kinda unfair for girls who don't meet this criteria of yours. You would deprive them of being with such a handsome daredevil like yourself! X))
and some stuff can't be achieved despite hitting the gym, considering muscles and body fat distribution in various areas. Again, not fair! but it's life's nature I assume...

[Bethany22]

Why is that so important to you? Is it so easy for you to find nice women that won't kill you in your sleep that allows you to afford to be annoyed that you can't have all the bells and whistles?

[NinjahRasta]

Lol, well I don’t need all the “bells & whistles” I just want a good girl who actually isn’t lazy & puts effort into her body for her man’s sexuality. It’s crazy all the women responses are in equal effort to shame me for my preferences but if I were a woman y’all be cheering me on. Insane.

[Wolfynight]

hey! as a girl with a big ass I can say not all girls with them are b*tches, I am sweet, I love to try and make people feel better, but for you just go with who you like? why would it matter she had an ass or not unless you're just that picky?

[midnightmoon05]

If having a family/children is not your goal. Then keep looking for the perfect woman.

[dustybiker]

My eyes are burning. Stop with the photoshop.

[Omega_brie]

You know that girl in your pic is not real right

The pic is photoshopped or she's had plastic surgery

[Iron_Man]

It’s her body what can you do if you like the girls stay with her don’t worry about the butt

[Iron_Man]

The girl

[NinjahRasta]

Yea maybe with the connection she’ll realize what I like and hit the gym. Who knows. Definitely would be worse without a connection. Thanks.

[WhiteBoyChill]

It sounds to me like you’ve just been a busy guy doing lots of things. Try to meet more women is all you can really do

[NinjahRasta]

Thanks for the advice Breda. I agree. Been very busy. I’ll try to meet more ladies.

[Massageman]

I guess your gal is NOT the one in the picture!

[Gooddaze]

So you want a girl with an ass like that in your pic.

[NinjahRasta]

Yea she has a decent booty lol. It’s just always been a huge attraction for me naturally.

[Summeroflove]

Then find who you're into

[NinjahRasta]

Thanks Breda! Best comment so far. I won’t give up.

[Summeroflove]

You're welcome?

[Luckycharms12]

So what get over yourself

[NinjahRasta]

Get over what I’m attracted to? How? Why?

[msc545]

Get over it.

[NinjahRasta]

How do I ignore what I’m attracted to and pretend it’s not what I naturally desire?

[msc545]

Try harder, or suffer.