I never had a girl I was attracted to with a booty. A friend introduced me to a girl, there’s a connection, but she’s flat as a door. What do I do?

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I hit the gym 6 days a week, practice martial arts, ripped, above average height, charismatic, freelance videographer who loves athletic women with a big booty & good vibes (before it was trendy). I’ve never met one in real life though. The girls I’ve met with a nice 🍑 are unfeminine & btchy. I’m not sure if it’s just me or bc everyone these days just wants a big booty girl so they get passed around a lot and egotistical & bitter. What you think? The blind date is a cute 4 but really cool vibes. I’m a 7-8 and have always compromised what im attracted to my whole life dating women bc connection & accepting them basically assless. I want to get married maybe in another country outside the female supremacist USA but I know I can never do that till I get a big booty girl with a heart. I know “never trust a big butt & a smile” but damn! Keeping it abuck. What should I do? Cold approach more? Grow taller? Be an asshole? Or just never get what I want & settle? even though I work hard everyday especially on my body.

FilmGuy93 · Accepted Answer

Having a big ass doesn’t mean that the woman will be unpleasant! Lmao it just means you have to be more clear about your boundaries and expectations with women. They love it, honestly. I’ve gotten to a point with women where I straight up tell them exactly what my expectations are from them and I’ve never once had any of them push back.

I don’t use these exact words, but it’s not far off; “my sense of peace is the single most important part of my life. It is more important to me than any single relationship. Bring me peace, and I will love you, cherish you, and do everything in my power to bring you peace. But if you ever stop bringing me peace, you’re gone. Have I made myself clear?”

Avicenna · Accepted Answer

Date the one you have the best connection with. That’s what matters.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

The lady in the picture looks comical 🤣🤣🤣sorry but it sounds like you have a fetish and not a genuine attraction. You care too much about the size of a private area even if the women isn't actually pretty. You need to fix yourself and start getting learning to be a mature adult.

Curiosity2006 · Accepted Answer

You value booty over inner beauty? Sorry had to! XDD

Bethany22 · Answer

Why is that so important to you? Is it so easy for you to find nice women that won't kill you in your sleep that allows you to afford to be annoyed that you can't have all the bells and whistles?

Wolfynight · Answer

hey! as a girl with a big ass I can say not all girls with them are b*tches, I am sweet, I love to try and make people feel better, but for you just go with who you like? why would it matter she had an ass or not unless you're just that picky?

midnightmoon05 · Answer

If having a family/children is not your goal. Then keep looking for the perfect woman.

dustybiker · Answer

My eyes are burning. Stop with the photoshop.

Omega_brie · Answer

You know that girl in your pic is not real right  The pic is photoshopped or she's had plastic surgery

Iron_Man · Answer

It’s her body what can you do if you like the girls stay with her don’t worry about the butt

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

It sounds to me like you’ve just been a busy guy doing lots of things. Try to meet more women is all you can really do

Massageman · Answer

I guess your gal is NOT the one in the picture!

Gooddaze · Answer

So you want a girl with an ass like that in your pic.

Summeroflove · Answer

Then find who you're into

Luckycharms12 · Answer

So what get over yourself

msc545 · Answer

Get over it.

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