I'm 31 single with no education or career I'm not poor but make very little money, how guys feel about it?

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Sometime I just like to have a guy hug me or kiss me or say I love you, like at times we all want to feel that you know... But the fact I just don't have my life together and circumstances are shit and I'm over 30...

My looks are average but the only quality I have is that I'm talented in painting and drawing and I can make some money off if it not a whole a lot but its not bad...

Aimer07 · Accepted Answer

1. Most men don't care how much you earn; they are directly interested in you as a woman. Men never expect to be provided for from a relationship unless they are struggling too and can't afford one not making enough money.

2. Higher age definitely decreases attractiveness unless you have worked very hard to maintain yourself for example (No obesity, healthy face and body through exercise, not expected fit or shredded but healthy)

3. Being virgin does increase attractiveness

4. Not having children also increase attractiveness

5. Not wanting children may decrease or increase attractiveness depending on partner preference If they want to start a family.

Overall: I would say you have a chance to get a long-term relationship however as time goes on chances decrease. Don't listen to feminism bullshit. This is the truth.

William7489 · Accepted Answer

I am really sorry that you feel the way you do. We all crave attention and love. Please remember that men are not focused on money nearly as much as it is the other way around. Make the most of yourself as you are. Some of the other answers here really are phenomenal. Take tons of time and improve yourself however you can, work out, read books, get involved with groups, step out on that proverbial limb And be that girl that you guys are surprisingly pleased to meet. Someone who is fun and pleasant, likes to have fun and doesn’t play games. You can earn the attention of other people, you have those qualities. Good luck

Avicenna · Answer

Well, it's a huge advantage of you that you don't have kids. I think plenty of guys will be interested in you if a low income is the only negative.

Adam1978 · Answer

Well that is what you have accomplished, only one person that is responsible for that. However men don't care as long as you can be happy in that state. We rarely date women because of their wealth or career, only conmen does. The rest is just after sex, respect and good treatment. And that any women can give if she wants.

es20490446e · Answer

When was the last time that you read a book, or watched a video, that you actually applied for advancing your career?

Does your level of college determine your success? Was Steve Jobs highly educated when he started Apple? Was Edison highly educated when he invented the light-bulb? Were the Wright brothers when they invented the airplane?

Do you think those people had brilliant minds, so unreachable by you and me? What driving force was behind them?

By the way your specific question is very well answered in this book:

https://www.amazon.com/Think-Grow-Rich-Napoleon-Hill/dp/0449214923

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Money and stage in life doesn't matter when picking, most artists have unstable careers until they make it big by starting a business.

I myself would prefer an artistic gamer who has no job, because I'd want to run a home business with her. That said, the fact that you think that a person needs to have their life in order before dating, can be very offputting to most guys, even more so if they are also artists.

What do you paint/draw?

Summeroflove · Answer

I think this depends on what is in your heart. If you are a good woman then I think there is someone out there who will love you. You just have not found the right one yet.

Ian69 · Answer

It certainly wouldn’t bother me you have no career or education. I’m just an average looking guy with an ordinary job.

Berethor · Answer

Lucky for you most men don't care about woman's money, and most gold diggers are female. As for not wanting kids, lacking a maternal instinct means that you are not wife material.

Anonymous · Answer

Guys don't care about how much money you make, or your career. But since there are so many options out there, you might struggle vs a woman that has her life together and is sure of herself.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

"Sometime I just like to have a guy hug me or kiss me or say I love you. [...] I don't want kids just to mention it" Oh I feel exactly the same

mattdzz · Answer

The fact that you're over 30 and don't want kids is very unattractive. Your money and your painting hobby don't even compute.

HighValue · Answer

Being past 30 and also not wanting kids each make me not interested based on those two things. The no career and being poor doesn't affect my interest in a woman.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

You don't want any kids Lol

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Guys will be more accepting of that than women would

AndrésC64 · Answer

It sounds like you're getting by on your own, and beyond that only someone very shallow is going to be concerned about how much you make.

Twalli · Answer

I'm over 30 and never worked outside of volunterring, you are not alone in not having your life together.

misogynistic_pig · Answer

I like women with no career or education, but I don't like women over 30.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

Sounds like you should be a housewife. If you cook, clean and give him kids most guys will be happy with that.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't feel anything about it really. But 30 isn't too late to transform your life. Good luck!

TroyDT2 · Answer

None of this would scare me off if we shared enough interests and clicked.

Hypermotard1916 · Answer

no one needs your money, but womb is what they need. if you cannot provide it, then better to be single...

IHateBeingaMan · Answer

a woman who is a virgin at 31? saving it for marriage?

Gooddaze · Answer

Well you posting anon doesn’t help. To me you just trolling

Anonymous · Answer

Well I love you!!!

LonelyAndBig · Answer

Have you ever had a boyfriend or first love?

Anonymous · Answer

I might be interested if you were a more traditionally minded woman. But for me, not wanting kids is a no-go.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

Do everything with your best effort

jimmy2 · Answer

It's fine dear life is better with , two

Part2603 · Answer

If you're thirty you've hit the wall.

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