Should I say im doomed if im 24 and still single even tho I desire to get married and want kids someday? When will things make sense for me?

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I am trying for sure but i think establishing a bond and relationship takes time but at the same time i can't force it to happen either. I just feel behind and lost. I cried today because i worry Ill be alone forever and i know once i hit 30 i can definitely throw the towel in because guys want younger girls even though i have good genes when it comes to age in my family. I feel like so many people my age or younger too already have a partner or a child and im just solo but have come out of my shell and trying to socialize more. What do i do to ease my worries tho?😞

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I have a ladyfriend who wanted kids. But after turning 40 since she hadn't found a prospective father finally just decided to cave and getting artificially insemination. Now she's supermom to 2 of the cutest regrets you're going to meet.

I guess what I'm saying is live your life, keep your heart open, and even if it doesn't happen it NOT the only avenue open to you. Not everyone gets the family 2 kids, dog, and a house with a white picket fence. But that doesn't mean your life can't be wonderful and fulfilling.

SnowedIn · Accepted Answer

You are not doomed. It's probably disheartening and perhaps scary staring into the abyss of 24 ( jk 😉) but that's part of being an adult and having the entire world at your fingertips. As much as it sucks, be patient and keeping working at it. You're not doomed! And happy birthday a week in advance!

KelleyNice · Accepted Answer

You have had plenty of opportunities with guys you rejected. Obviously, you want guys out of your league that you can't have. At your age, the guys you rejected are slightly more desirable than guys you can attract in the future. If you wait much longer, you will be looking back and asking "Where have all the good guys, that you could have had, gone."

Aerissa_Jade · Accepted Answer

You are not doomed, you got time.

Be more social, be more friendly, I know its hard... but try to get out there and hang out more. Date if you can but if you can't, just make friends.

Sometimes those friends may know someone else that is a great match for you.

Still-alive · Answer

Of course you aren't doomed. I should tell you that there's a large incel/mgtow community on this site and they love nothing more than to say disparaging things about women to make themselves feel better. Don’t listen to them.

just take your time. Love will find a way for you. Even if you gotta reach your 30s to get it. Guys will still find you attractive and will still want to date you. I promise you itll be ok.

Summeroflove · Answer

I think you will be alright. I know based off past questions that you have something good going with someone right now.  I don't think you will be doomed. I say. Just keep going

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Love is a wonderful thing & as for love it could kick you in the ass when you least expect it so hang in there love is right around the corner. As for you 24 years YOUNG your going to be soon & like wine you get better with age.

Havthrills · Answer

You're definitely not doomed. You're way to young to even think that. You're only 24. I'm 44 with no kids. Still want them little rug cleaners. Lol

Berethor · Answer

You didn't hit the wall yet, and if you want kids then you fine, good luck.

Anonymous · Answer

Doomed at 24? You must be kidding sis.. 🤔 Don't rush yourself. Sometimes rushing can lead to more difficult situations.

chicosuave · Answer

easy. lower your expectations and you will easily get married.

slatyb · Answer

You are only 24. Plenty of time to meet, marry, and have children. What are you doing to have a chance to meet a partner?

CanadianLearner · Answer

You could try dating men in their late 20's, rather than your age.

DEondeBeaumont · Answer

Try this

UnknownSwede · Answer

With that mindset it's easy to feel that way. Since you post similar questions very often, it feels like it's deeply rooted in you and you need to push the reset button.

boobliker · Answer

never you just have not found the right one yet so keep looking good hunting.

anon1903 · Answer

there's more to life than family making and relationships... but ok

AimeeKyle · Answer

Absolutely not. Cut yourself some slack. You have plenty of time. Don’t rush into anything. Take your time and enjoy the experience / this time in your life.

BJP21 · Answer

At my age finding any lady in their 30s that isn't taken is what Im running into. Id date a 30 year old any day of the week.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

I'm 38 and single. You have plenty of time. When you get to my age it means nothing anymore and everyone my age gives up.

Anonymous · Answer

Your not doomed at 24; there is still time to find a husband.

Sixgun77 · Answer

You have plenty of time. My wife and I met in our 40s.

Twalli · Answer

You're not doomed at 30, girls can give birth all through their 30s.

JustWowMan · Answer

Paule. PM me immediately. Got something to say in private

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