Why do I feel so much pressure and worrisome about finding love and having kids already and im only 23?(Read details)?

[Mary087]

I struggle sometimes with anxiety and depression and am also a sensitive anxious person also. I currently am trying to get myself established financially and move out of my parents in a couple of years and travel more, get a pc for myself, better my health etc. I dont party or do drugs. I haven't had a boyfriend in a year, only ever slept with one guy but dating hasn't been the easiest for me... either some guys aren't interested, ghost me, or only want sex. I get told im pretty,&hot. Strike up conversations as well but no luck. Already im dreading if I'll find that right guy and be a mom someday because i don't wanna be single when im older or still without kids.. i dont know how to feel especially because guys and society love to make age a factor or assume the girl is bad or a partier.

[Kaamraj]

You are not mistaken to think that age is a huge factor that society places on women, for both reproductive (fertility) and psychological reasons. However, I think you have some self-esteem issues that you need to take care of first. Yes, most men just want sex and would lie to you about commitment to get it. And your job as a woman is to filter out such men.

[Berethor]

You aware about the clock.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MyBiologicalClockIsTicking

[SnakeBoop]

Your love life does not have an expiry date.
Stop obsessing over it and get on with your actual life or you'll miss it all.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Take one day at a time, look I just turned age 54 and have no girl, no kids but I would have to be with a girl no older than age 35, for her to be a mother and me a father yes it happens and I think we place pressure on ourselves (( Hugs ))

[Andres77]

You're listening to the wrong people... one of which... is you.