How to meet men in person when I have no social life? (Page 2)

[Rockerroy]

Just walk around and if you see a guy you like just grab him and pin him to the nearest wall or something and say " i wanna go for a date and you're taking me to one"

[Asker]

So I can pin a guy to a wall but still expect him to take ME out? Lmao

[Rockerroy]

Lmao i see the sarcasm flew over your head

[Asker]

It flew over yours too I guess

[Lucifer_666]

You should give online dating a try. Also, you need to work on your self-esteem.

[Asker]

Self esteem is dependent on how the world treats you.

[1User12345]

What's your salvation based on physically or spiritualty I'm latter. But like you I've had no say so but everyone is in the same boat so sail on and-on-and etc.

[Ironic_Method]

I also have no social life and am introverted... online dating/dating apps have worked fine for me.

[TacosRAwesome]

Join a bunch of groups on Facebook and attend the events.

[_Just_A_girl_]

Online, join a group, look for trivia night, online video gaming

[AsaKyo]

I guess try to join groups near where you live?

I don't really know myself lmao

[Guardian45]

*WOW*😳 You almost sound like a female version of myself!😂

[Asker]

We should move in together lmao. Im not even kidding. Idec anymore about getting murdered by a potential serial killer.

[Guardian45]

LOL! I do.😂

[Asker]

You’re scared? Im kinda into that 🤔… Lmao just kidding. I mean I am but I respect your boundaries.

[Grubhub]

Have you ever had a boyfriend? Have you had men approach you?

[Grubhub]

My advice would be get out more

[Asker]

Never had a boyfriend. I had one man “approach”(he just took his shot when I got closer to him) me for the first time ever last year or earlier this year. I didn't realize what was happening at first (since i was on the job, very laid back job though so no bid deal) but I figured it out and it just kinda turned awkward and he mumbled something I couldn't quite make out when I started to walk away.

It was 5 mins til my shift ended so I just ran and clocked out immediately so I didn't run into him again lol. Not that he was horrible, but something tells me he mumbled something not so nice, but its the first time I had ever been flirted with so I didn't know what to think or say or how to react. Its possible he might have seen me before I saw him because he made a comment about my body but I dont think he was able to see it that well.

Either way, it was my first experience and I felt like a normal girl for the first time in my life that day lol. I was not attracted to him in anyway though so I dont see it as a missed opportunity.

[Twalli]

I met some people I know on a dating app. It's not a huge deal. Just like you, they're looking for a SO.

[EaterPeter]

Just try. Put one foot before other. Wear decent clothes. It is as simple as 1 2 3?

[Asker]

Its not for me

[EaterPeter]

I know dear. We all are not build same and we must try

[Asker]

Sometimes I just feel worse when I think I look really nice and Im nice to people and nothing changes. The level of hot I need to be is not attainable for me right now. Im hoping I’ll peak in my 30s once I come around some money to surgically enhance myself.

[EaterPeter]

Surgical most people do not need. There is no such thing as ugly woman. Poor woman, yes. If that makes sense.

[Anonymous]

I just go out with my brother and hang out with his friends

[Asker]

My siblings dont like me and they dont even have friends either

[zagor]

It really doesn't sound like you're very interested in meeting someone.

[BJP21]

Girl if your in the San Diego area DM me. We gonna have a long talk.

[Asker2022]

Never and I mean ever post your pictures online.

you hear me!

[AmeerX]

You can actually talk to people who won't mind ask for a photo till you are comfortable.

[dolemite89]

if you never leave the house how can u meet anyone? 😂 go to the gym and other public places and start by making some friends first.

[Legion696969]

Go to Church, interest, s and hobbies you, ve got? Find club, s to go to locally?

[JulianGronkowski]

Girl, I feel the same way. I can’t give you much advice, all I can say is I understand how you feel.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Why bother? Seems like you got it figured out in your mind..

[robocop666]

have you tried making eye contact with them in cafes? thats how most women do it

[Asker]

….. I dont think so lol. Like how? If I look longer than a glance then Im afraid it’ll look like Im scowling. But I've had someone tell me cafe’s might be the spot. I’ll really consider that though.

[Anonymous]

Just start getting out more, even if you have to force yourself to do it.

[Asker]

But where though if I have no friends? Id LOVE to go out!

[Opinion Owner]

Then focus on going what it takes to make some new friends.

[Asker]

I’ll never have friends. Not gonna happen. I've tried my whole life. No one has ever liked me. Not teachers, not therapists… no one.

[Opinion Owner]

Try volunteer work.

[Asker]

Vilunteer work. Can you imagine me volunteering at something kinda important and me screwing everything up by not paying attention because Im focusing on a guy like “Yea so tell me about yourself. Lol yea I dont even wanna be here Im just bored. We should hang out after” 😂😂

[Anonymous]

Well, you might actually have to put forth some effort. Shocking I know.

[Dr-Zarnish]

social life never depends on meeting someone

[midnightmoon05]

What do you really want?

[TheSpaceGnome]

What are your hobbies?

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm really sorry. I hate it when that happens.

[Noodle_fan]

just go out as often as you can

[Jmmmfi4]

It's exactly the issue I have

[Asker]

I dont wanna suggest things for you that i wouldn't do myself and I don't know your history so im stumped. I really feel like online is the way to go, but not from dating sites. I've I had my few online friendships from pretty random apps where your face isn't shown. Eventually we move to another app where we can show pictures or its just specifically designed for messaging so the flow is better.

It can be difficult when its online and You really wanna hangout in person. And its very easy to drop each other for one reason or another because of this. And people tend to interpret things wrong over text and would rather ghost than ask for clarity. Me personally, im not gonna double text someone after a few days of them not answering my last message. They made a choice to stop talking to me and although Im saddened by it, I just try to move on. Im learning to be more emotionally detached to people online because how easily we could just stop talking one day. It’s served my mental health well.

[Jouth]

get a social life

[Anonymous]

We in the same boat

[Asker]

Lmao we can be online friends for like 2 days. And no idea who that b up there is talking about blocking me. Espefially when Im anon? 🤔

[Opinion Owner]

anons can't block each other

[Asker]

Yea but she isn't. She was able to block me. I tried to reply but it said i was blocked. So strange. Literally never even seen her user before too. And I dont even come on here like that.

[Opinion Owner]

Thats weird unless she knows your actual username

[Asker]

Even if she did…. like how would she be so sure it was me? Lmao

[Opinion Owner]

Some people are here 24//7 and can identify how someone writes lol weird right

[Asker]

Ew I dont like that…… creepy. This app needs more users. Small world on here.

[Opinion Owner]

yeah

[jimmy2]

I hear you. One will find you

[In_Trance]

Dating sites

[Lucas213]

True tho