How to meet someone if I don't go out?

[Shihab_91]

All what i do is work , play videogames, watch movies , i don't go out a lot and even when i do i see a girl walking with her friends it feels it would be awkward if i just tried to talk to her out of nowhere , how i can meet someone, I can't find matches on dating apps and here apps are for hookups only

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Guys im not hardcore gamer, i work and barely play videogames 1hr , but what I meant nothing else in my life

[Staximus]

Get some hobbies that take you outside. You're never going to meet a woman sitting around playing video games like a kid or watching tv all the time.

[Shihab_91]

You know people here don't have hobbies they just go out with friends to cafes , which i find boring

[paledreams]

Hmm - that photo is inspiration? Hey random smiley lady "blank expression horror" 😑😑😑😶 lol : so really these days, the only way women date guys, or guys date women, is either through friends groups or just plain luck

[paledreams]

Aka they hit on many women a day many days a week and eventually one fish is wheeled in "sure I'll go for a coffee" ☕👀 lol 😆

[Nikki1989]

You are 33. Don't you think it was time you start acting like it?

[Shihab_91]

Hmmm but i don't have hobbies i just work thats it

[slatyb]

Stop playing video games and getting out. Find a group doing something, anything that interests you.

You are right, just talking to a strange women on the street is creepy. Don't do that.

[paledreams]

How about the mall or a coffee shop? Surely then it's okay - unless they just plain ignore or give horror looks like why the hell you talking fool 😆👀😶😶😶😑😑 yeah some women are real cruel unless it's "sorry my chair was blocking your path to the counter" cough 😷

[slatyb]

@paledreams You can try start8ng a conversation. Don't start by asking for a date. Start with a question or a compliment, but not her body. if she brushes you off, then move on. If she engaged, then ask her at the end of the conversation.

[paledreams]

100 percent man - some folks, and women can attest to guys doing this to women they don't fancy, they'll 100 percent brush them off kindly yet firmly as oh I don't have Instagram. Sure ya don't. Or oh I'm sorry I've got work and the boys are wanting to go out for beers tonight. It's a Monday. Lol you get the vibes man ♂️ let's all be merry and single and remain straight lol 😆

[paledreams]

And on The straight and narrow 😧😋😋🫡

[LiamJHayden]

Umm, no idea. I go out and approach. I don't care if she is with friends, but do wait for a decent opening. As the saying goes, "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."

[DtMe89]

My mom met my dad at a mutual friends wedding. They've been married 38+ years now

[paledreams]

And that's perhaps what smart people @DtMe89 the really smart people right there you wrote - "they hook onto one fish, which the fish mutually agreed to, and never look back" lol 😆 never throw the fish back 😂

[DtMe89]

@paledreams What

[paledreams]

Fishing analogy lol 🐟🐠 🎣 bro you get it surely? Reeling in or wheeling lol my spelling ain't what it used to be "a big fish* aka - a hot woman lol 🤣😆

[paledreams]

You got one and you didn't throw it back, you caught it and kept it 🐠🐟🐟🐠 lol a woman ♀️

[Anonymous]

A friend of mine met her husband while gaming. So it does happen. Probably not very often. But it does happen.

[Anonymous]

I have the same issue, and still no solution.

[SweetDripp]

Start going out

[paledreams]

Coffee shops over bars/pubs 🥂😄☕

[In_Trance]

Ya won't

[paledreams]

It's a cruel world out there for dating or even asking are you single or wanna have coffee *oh I'm late for blah blah* sure lady sure okay more coffee for me at my booth for one lol 😆 or table for one 😆

[slatyb]

@paledreams Both of those are bad starts. You are asking her to make a decision about you before she knows anything at all about you. Of course she's going to say no. How many unrelated women do you greet by name?

[paledreams]

I'll have you know all I said was Hi joking jokingly :P so to speak - man I'm George nowadays at 30 I don't approach strange women aka as he said on the show himself back in the 1990s -im glad I'm not stocky or balding either :P

[paledreams]

"balding men stocky who live with their parents blah don't talk to strange women* lol Opposite George then Reversed lol

[paledreams]

Or "improved esteem George* lol 😆 memorable episode

[paledreams]

Hey women can't always grand stand - what about "my male feelings" aka -all these hoes wish they could bang yet I'm just gonna be quiet and mind my own :)