How would I know if I found a real good guy and not found a fake nice guy?

[OnlinePeanut22]

I was texting a new guy that I matched through on Facebook dating and I did ask for his social media and now have been texting each other from snapchat. I did ask him if you would like to make video calls. He said not now I am in a game with someone. Would you think it is a good thing or not? I would prefer a person to let me know if they can't do a video call and do it at different times or days. Should I wait or let it go and see what happens. I also ask you to have a girlfriend. He said no. I said I don't have a boyfriend. Each is still texting.

[michael00007]

Maybe try some time again if he tells some other reason then maybe jus ask him about his link for VCs. I personally dont prefer video calls unless its naughty lol that too if im in a mood really. Some people like to meet at a place outside and get comfortable with things but not too soon.

[OnlinePeanut22]

I don't understand. I am not interested in anything naughty. I already got fed up. Do not even reread where I said learning disability.

[michael00007]

PM me girl. looks like you're in a serious problem.

[OnlinePeanut22]

Fuck no to pm

[Summeroflove]

If he ends up wanting sex. You don’t give it to him and he dumps you. Or you dump him for wanting sex.

[Summeroflove]

If you like him ask him out. Not into him don’t.

[OnlinePeanut22]

I am not interested in sex.

[Summeroflove]

Yeah I can understand that 💯. Bad women obviously don’t like nice guys. Good women do like nice guys. But it becomes creepy when they can tell the bottom line is just to get sex. That isn’t a nice guy.

If you want to ask him on a date. Then ask him. If not. Long as he isn’t creeping you out and you appreciate it. Say thanks. If he makes a move just kindly decline

[Summeroflove]

I assume If you match on a dating app. Sorry sometimes I forget the context of things. That you like him. You just don’t want sex.

If he wants sex. Then dump him. He isn’t marriage material if he isn’t willing to wait until marriage.

[OnlinePeanut22]

I am not interested in being married. Would prefer long term relationships.

[Summeroflove]

That is a long term relationship.

[Summeroflove]

Obviously you’re not going to get married right away. But I mean. I personally want to find someone to marry later down the road.

I believe in saving sex until marriage.

[OlderAndWiser]

Get to know him before you jump into bed.

[OnlinePeanut22]

I am not interested in sex

[FunkyMonkee]

Just give him a bit of time. If he's someone that's ALWAYS playing games, you might do better to find someone else. Especially if he's always too busy to talk to YOU. How important can you be to him if he's not wiling to take the time to talk to you?

[OnlinePeanut22]

I am always playing video games. Not playing games. I think he mean video game.

[FunkyMonkee]

Yes, I know.
If a girl wants to talk with me, I'll usually put aside what I'm doping and converse with her. If it's something I can't break away from just then, I WILL get back to her later. If he can't do that for you, is he worth it?

[OnlinePeanut22]

He always replied back to and said he forgot sometimes

[Slotbot]

Every detail in the response should lead u to ur answer, don't worry too much about the calls tho, some people just dislike talking in the ph.

N generally (my opinion anyway) good guys are a bit shy n don't tend to rush things, we don't feel the need to try n show off or impress u, other than by just being ourselves.

[OnlinePeanut22]

Being shy is ok. I don't want to rush but get know each other first and wait and see.

[In_Trance]

Give it time