Am I overthinking it?

[Anonymous]

I’m talking to this guy as more than friends and I’ve been friends with him for 2 years now he’s been a gentleman but he’s my dads friend so was never anything more but recently spoke an opened up about our feelings he’s showed me his feelings more and been respectful etc not creepy and so on. And recently since opening up I’ve been teasing him asking if he wants to kiss me and saying I say dream about us making out and so on, should I be creeped out that he said “without being disrespectful when you tease me and I’m stoned I just wanna rip your clothes off” should I be worried that he’s trying to use me or something or am I just being stupid.

[Guy13]

Flirty, intentional, and could be more if there was a greater comfort level between you two...

[UnknownPuppet]

Use you? It seems that you both want each other and you have expressed your desire. It is part of the flirt. I don't know, having only those information, if he is trying to use you. Maybe yes maybe not.

[Asker]

Yeah no you’re completely right I think I just overthink and got brainwashed into thinking once a man mentions anything sexual that’s it he doesn’t like you. But I think me teasing him makes sense as to why he would say something like that.

[In_Trance]

yes you are