How should I make a man feel needed?

[Anonymous]

I’ve always struggled to make a man feel needed as I’m pretty independent, what are some small ways I can ask a guy for help without coming off as needy?

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know. If you’re a good woman to him. If you WANT him this also says something.

For me. This is just me. If a woman has options and doesn’t need me but wants me. I want to be needed because she loves me. She’s independent. But still let’s me into her life. That means a lot to me.

Sure when you need or want help with something. Ask. But make sure to return to return the favor and help him with stuff too. Many men don’t like a woman whose always asking for something. Never does anything for them. But I assume you’re not like that.

[genericname85]

i think "needing" him isn't necessary. but you can sure appreciate what he does generally and what he does for you and give him validation for that, even if you don't technically "need" those things.

[genericname85]

like the small things you now? for example he made you lunch. obviously you can cook your own lunch. but it's still a nice gesture of him and a sort of display of affection form his side so like just give him positive feedback. recognize what he did verbally and point out that you are happy he did that for you.

[SinghSolicitors]

1. Speak his love language
2. Bring the romance
3. Give him your undivided attention
4. Remember the little things
5. Be a safe space
6. Say thank you, often
7. Shower him with genuine compliments

[Wise4myage]

Be more in tune with his needs, both sexual and otherwise.

[DannyUk2017]

Just be yourself, he will come around eventually.