I’m I being disloyal?

[Bratz1211]

The girl in blue (me) I’m kinda speaking to someone else so I said this to my friend! Would u say I’m still being loyal or a player who meets random guys?

[William7489]

A few things I noticed. I am inferring that you are dating somebody if you go to the trouble to save screenshots as proof of your intentions to be completely platonic.
If you are dating someone, and I was your boyfriend, I’m sorry to say that I would probably tell you to go on the date if you wanted to but don’t bother calling me anymore. I’ve often said that every bad story about a break up or jealousy/cheating in a relationship begins with some thing like this, “I never intended anything to happen or cheat, I was just trying to have fun and help a friend.“ So what happens if you get pretty tipsy and this other guy is really handsome, charming , tall and funny? Maybe nothing? Or maybe your inhibitions are a little low and you do some thing you didn’t plan on doing. The point is, if you’ve got a boyfriend, why are you going on a date with another guy? It’s not your responsibility to be a plus one for your girlfriend so she can hook up with a guy. She should know better than to even ask. If you value your relationship with your boyfriend, you probably should know better than to ask to even go on a platonic date with another guy. I’m old-fashioned but I also know that it works. Good luck.

[Bratz1211]

He’s not my boyfriend we’re just talking

[William7489]

OK, well as long as you’re not interested in dating the guy it doesn’t matter. I doubt the guy you’re “talking” to stay interested if you’re going on double dates and stuff. Did you decide to go ahead and go? Either way I hope you have fun and works out. Just enjoy yourself

[mickmrly]

This is a weird situation and it would probably have been easier for you to go with her as a chaperone and for him to not bring his friend. Saying that, just because you talk to a guy doesn’t make you disloyal. If you tell your boyfriend, if he even is your boyfriend yet, beforehand it should be fine. It’s not like you’ll just start making out with every man you meet and talk to.
Next time it will probably be easier for you if your friend can arrange an actual double date with you and your preferred guy. Neither of them are going to mars next week, they can wait to organise a good time for everyone if they really want to meet.

[Bratz1211]

He’s not my boyfriend just someone I’m talking to but he’s mad at me I don’t understand

[Bratz1211]

He also stopped speaking to cos of that

[mickmrly]

It’s probably for the best. He has no right to be that controlling without even being in a relationship. Some people just think others exist to please them, and get angry if they even interact with anyone else. What bizarre behaviour.

[Bratz1211]

He said he’s not trying to talk to someone who even considers going on a date so I sent him the screenshot of what I sent and he’s just ghosting me

[PamelaRivers]

Dose he want to be your boyfriend? Or does he think he is your boyfriend already? Either way could explain his reaction.

[Bratz1211]

No he doesn’t think he’s my boyfriend he thought we was just talking that’s all, so I don’t get what the big deal is. Even when I sent him the screenshots.

[BigschlongEnergy]

If your meeting other dudes cause you wanna Fuck then that’s disloyal it’s not bad to be disloyal as long as it feels good it’s not bad so go have sex go have fun you only have 1 life to live you might as well get as much pleasure as you can while your still Breathing.

[Summeroflove]

If you’re going on dates with other guys. Yes it’s cheating. It’s wrong. Either break up with your boyfriend. Or tell him what you did.

If you have guys who are platonic that’s fine

[Bratz1211]

His not my boyfriend tho we’re just talking and he left me on deliver for a week

[Summeroflove]

What did you send him?

[loveslongnails]

I'll ask again - are you REALLLLLLLY 25 years old? You can't go on a date by yourself? You're kidding me. He can't either? Go to a very, very public place. Arrive early. My God, this sounds like 7th grade!

[glennos89]

Maybe your boyfriend didn't like the "😭' because it can make him think you wanted to go if you got the opportunity. Just a speculation im not sure ofcourse

[Andres77]

i wouldn't like being obligated like that. so i wouldn't call it disloyalty

[Bratz1211]

So you don’t think I’m doing anything wrong?

[Andres77]

not at all. i think she's a fool for going out with a guy she doesn't know, who has not established a level of trust, and expects YOU to go out with a complete stranger.

[Bratz1211]

Thank you! The guy isn’t happy with me though! I showed him the text, I’m waiting to see what he says

[Andres77]

he's not ur boss so... doesn't matter what he thinks.

[Bratz1211]

I know but he stopped speaking to me cause he actually thought I was going on a date. So I sent him that screenshot

[Andres77]

if u want to go out with him make the guy earn your attention and stop being a whiner. he's pissed because someone else arranged a way to manipulate you into going on a date and you had the audacity to stand up for yourself? piss on him. if he's whining about this then i'd probably not trust him down the line either. i'd watch my back with that guy.

[24jack]

Loyal to whom? But you definitely ain't a player , you are just supporting your girl

[Bratz1211]

The guy I’m speaking to

[24jack]

Yeah , you will be considered loyal , it isn't like you are going out looking to have fun with someone else

[hafinjun]

Sounds like loyal friend to me

[Jamie05rhs]

You already asked this question.

[Deserter]

Can I pm you?

[Bratz1211]

Why?

[Deserter]

I want you to send me feet pics if that's cool

[EaterPeter]

Hello