I met this guy on FB dating in July. We talked until August and then we went on a date. After that I started going to his house on a weekly basis. We had sex on the second meet up. He was hesitant and said he didn't want to move too fast. Meaning he didn't want me to think all he wanted was sex. But I told him I was ok with it and we slept together.
We cuddled and cooked together and I brought him food. So this continued for about a month. While I was at his place he was telling me how he was really focused on work. Because certain things had to be taken care of. He told me once that he really didn't have time for anything and that he was busy with work. I told him I wanted to come over after he got off work and he let me. So at the end of September was the last time I saw him. He texted me saying he thought he wanted to date. But that he realized he didn't and that he's too preoccupied with work. At one point he told me to forget about other men and he was talking about us doing things in the future.
I asked him if he was interested in someone else he said it wasn't that. Then I told him I accidentally took his boxers. And he said I could come drop him off. That's when I went off on him. I told him he was a liar and I asked him if I needed to get tested for an STD.
I then left his boxers on his porch. I did apologize to him.
He hasn't talked to me much since then. But he did talk to me on the phone last week when I called him after being in a car accident. I left some stuff at his house that which he left sitting on his porch for me to pick up. I haven't gone to pick it up. I have apologized to him via voicemail and I sent him a letter.
I've already started talking to other men. But I would still like to talk to him again. Which is why I’d like to reach out in a couple of months.
I’ve had men who have come back trying to talk to me years later. So I don’t see anything wrong with me reaching out to him.
