How to turn a guy down, what excuse should I say to let him down slowly?

[Anonymous]

There is a guy I had a crush on for a long time. We became friends and after like 5 months we got closer and I was so happy. Then he asked me out and i said yes. Before we went out we kissed two times. Then we went out but we struggled a bit in conversation so I decided to let him go. I also find another boys i got to know attractive. My friends told me that maybe I’ll regret it. They say he is cool, good friend, funny and he is worthy. I mean I like him. But I decided to let him go. I expected something else from date. What should I say to him to upset him as least as possible?

[SnowedIn]

If you're convinced that you want to let him go, please be honest and direct and do it soon. He'll be hurt but he will (one day if not immediately) appreciate your honesty and maturity.

But...

It might be worth listening to your friends on this one. Give the guy a second chance. First, something attracted you to him in the first place. Presumably that's still there. I wouldn't throw that away immediately. Second, first dates are awkward. Talking is sometimes hard particularly for a young guy who likes a girl. You really have to give it a little time. Third, those other attractive people might not be all they look like. The grass isn't always greener. If you've found a guy you like and he likes you, hang on to him. Finally, communication is key. If you want more from a date, the ball is in your court to say so. You both have to share what you and don't want.

I'd really give the guy another try but, if not, let him down nicely and soon.

[slatyb]

You don't need an excuae. If he asks for another date, just say "Sorry, but I don't think it's going to work." That's all.

[Zenpanda]

Just be honest.
Honesty and sincerity go a long way.
He might be hurt, but that's not something you can prevent.

[boggboss]

Nothing u say will not hurt him just tell the truth and dknt mess around with it

[Luckycharms12]

Say you are flattered but you aren't interested in him

[Snedger____]

Tell him straight without games