How can I let a guy down, gently?

[abbyjgriffin98]

Okay, so I was at this work party yesterday. There was a lot of drinking and one of my coworkers told me one of our other co-workers has a super big crush on me. We talk a lot, but I have only ever saw him as a friend. What's ironic is that the guy I kind of like is the one who told me and is kind of pushing me in that direction, so I guess we both got friendzoned, lol. It kind of stung, but in a way, I'm glad he was the one who told me so now I can move on and find someone who I like who likes me back. But back to the story. I have zero romantic feelings for the guy that likes me. He's a really good friend and I enjoy our talks. But only as friends. I can't really come out and say I don't like him like that because he was not really the one who told me. I've honestly considered dating him just so I didn't have to hurt his feelings, but that would not be fair for either of us. So how do I go about handling this situation? I don't want to hurt him and end our friendship, but I also don't want to lead him on. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

Just tell your friend that you don't see him that way and let it get back to him without you saying it.

Soon that person will be back to being a friend!

Alother is to say you have someone or someone's! My wife's best friend used us as her romantic partner when her guy friend wanted more.

Really helped the guy just see her as a friend.

Mean while my wife was happy enjoying our 3somes cause she always needs one when pregnant but also when she is not.

Sometimes it is just a good excuse and others wanna join us

[Billlewis]

I honestly love questions like this... I think it's so hot that women actually discuss the best way to tell a guy that he won't be having any sex with her:)

[virgo2267]

Story of your life it seems

[In_Trance]

Just tell him you're not interested. Straight and to the point

[CuriousMufuxka]

Don't do anything! Lol fucking work parties..

[Pinay_ako]

Just tell him