I’m 99% sure I am in love with a guy who does not feel the same way. It’s breaking my heart daily. Does anyone have tips for falling out of love?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Just go away from him. And try with a new guy.

Can u help me?

If he says "next time we see us will be the last one.. Why he wait a lot?

[Wolfynight]

I feel your pain!! Every time I am with someone the reason it ends is because i like and care for them more than they did me, its hard ik

[Asker]

Complete and utter sadness. And frustration.

[Wolfynight]

yes!

[boggboss]

Stop entertaining thoughts of him and do your best to cut him out your life

[Summeroflove]

A therapist. Dating and trying to build interest with someone else.

[Avicenna]

Are you in a relationship with him?

[Asker]

No. Not officially. We are/were friends I guess. His actions and words led me to believe he was interested in a more serious relationship and over the past few months I fell in love with him. Now he’s pretty much ignored me for a month. But has a daily text conversation with my dad. And nothing to me.

[Avicenna]

You're going to have to be bold and tell him how you feel about him

[genericname85]

Man that's tough. I personally would cut the ties.

[Asker]

Unfortunately I can’t. We’re on a board together and I coach his daughter. Plus he’s developed this friendship with my dad who he texts daily… even though he doesn’t text me.

[genericname85]

is that job related for you or like coaching in a recreational sports club or whatever?

[Asker]

Sports club. It’s archery.

[genericname85]

yeah well.. you can leave that. i mean i really have no better way of dealing with this. i left my local volleyball club over a girl i was crushing on. i just can't deal with it.

[Asker]

I’ve been coaching there for 20 years. I can’t leave it.

[genericname85]

There's other clubs. But you gotta know what's best for you. I'm just saying that staying would not work for me.

[Asker]

Part of me doesn’t want to, but I can’t leave my other kids. Also, my dad is one of the other coaches. I won’t abandon him.

[cloud9vortex1234]

I don't think it's that easy. I honestly don't know what to tell you.

[Anonymous]

Then its time to move on.

[Asker]

Yes, I understand that, but how?

[Opinion Owner]

Focus on finding yourself a new man and cut off all contact with the ex.