Should I invite her?

[Anonymous]

when i turn 18 i'm gonna go on a cruise and i want to invite my best friend who i have a crush on should i pay for her or ask her to pay some of it?

[SnowedIn]

Sure, go ahead and ask her. I'd keep in mind four things: 1) Her parents are probably going to want a say in it (even if she's 18). 2) If you have one cabin, there's sort of an implied ask of sex there, or a level of intimacy and closeness way above what you describe as a crush. 3) Cruises are crazy expensive. I'm not sure you want to ask her to pay that much. Particularly if this is your first time doing something like this. May just be better to pay for the whole thing. 4) Finally, be prepared that one of her answers can be "no". Be cool with that if that's her answer and don't not speak to her after that.

[Asker]

her dad is in jail and her mom isn't really around much so that part wouldn't really be an issue i don't think she would say no and we have had moments where we were flirting and S** could've happened but i didn't seal the deal and i said some of it like maybe 100 or 200 hundred of it since i would be paying the rest which is a couple of thousand dollars.

[SnowedIn]

Thanks for MHO!

[joeldalton]

Dude, don't take a chick on a cruise hoping you'll get in her pants.

[KayMay]

You should both pay your own way, and neither of you should ever mention climate change.

[WhitneySnow]

Unless climate change ruins your trip

[WhitneySnow]

Go for it! Pay for her if you can afford it.