Is there any way to put an end to my growing misogyny?

[Anonymous]

I think my lacking of an adult love life and feelings of isolation are the cause. I had a year long relationship (first and only adult relationship) with a single mother that I moved in with me, only to discover she had been cheating on my nearly the entire time. After that I tried to get into the dating scene again. Time after time I was either ghosted or just told I would just make a good friend. I have no problem being friends with women but I will be lying if I say that it didn't bother me when those same female friends come and tell me how they're new boyfriend, guy she's dating, or sleeping with isn't shit and it's treating them poorly but yet they keep going back. It sounds like my negative feelings for women are because a majority of the woman that I interact with either online or in person seem to value the same kind of guys whom would treat them poorly rather than someone who genuinely cares for them.

[Anonymous]

Start vetting anyone and everyone you spend time with. Be more mindful of where you spend your time and what you do with it. Spend your time concerning yourself with becoming financially free, your life purpose, getting fitter, healthier, stronger, smarter, 'building' a home and maybe even living off-grid. Your excessive concern for females is unworthy of such time, it won't help you in life at all. But when you get on your life purpose, your indifference toward women will draw them toward you, and your joy, intelligence, motivation and ambition will create attraction. You can also use audio subliminals to 'reprogram' your underlying thought process with affirmations that are the opposite to the ones you have in your subconscious currently.

See how to create them here:

https://www.reddit.com/r/Subliminal/comments/sb99np/how_to_create_a_subliminai_recording_requires_pc/?context=3

[PrettyPriya]

First you have to understand that the vast majority of women won’t put up with guys that treat them like trash. I certainly would not. I want a guy that is sweet and caring.

Lucky for me that I found him. He is respectful, kind and a real gentleman. Not many of those left it seems. Same goes for my friends that are married or in a relationship. They are all with really nice guys.

Sounds like maybe your friendship group of women wouldn’t know a nice guy if it hit them in the face. I would never tolerate a guy treating my like crap. Neither would my family.

I think you will find most girls have the same view as I do. Not sure what these friends of yours are thinking. As for how to deal with the attitude you are developing, that is something only you can fix. First thing is you need to realize that most girls are not like what you’ve seen. You cannot tell me that girls want a guy that treats them poorly. That’s insane.

[Asker]

First I want to thank you for not taking this the wrong way. I've voiced this to a female friend of mine and she basically said I was being a nice guy/incel. And secondly yeah I know women aren't monolithic and that's why I know my feelings that I'm developing are irrational. I just don't know how to start going down a different path.

[PrettyPriya]

Well, you aren’t an incel for being a good guy. It’s just the girls that you know seem to be the type to put up with rubbish guys.

As far as changing that line of thinking, maybe seek out some local activity group where you can meet up with likeminded people (including girls) and expand your circle of friends.

I’m confident you’ll meet some girls that are into the things that really matter, like personality and character. Most of us don’t like that bad boy type.

[LazerBean]

When you stop associating with immoral those problems go away.

[inhua]

there is none. and no therapy won't help.

you're gonna have to change your life situation entirely to the point where you get to dictate who you gets to stay in your life and who stays out. that means leveling up your looks, money, status etc and when you do, you'll find a mindset shift where your level of tolerance towards shitty people will change.

some people will hate you for it but it's your life and they can kick rocks instead.

[Guy13]

Oh please…focus on something worthwhile like career, providing for family, or self-improvement 🤷🏻‍♂️

[genericname85]

well don't reflect negative experience you have on the entire gender xD... people are very individual and different and it's really hard for all of us to find a good match. you can't blame individuals or an entire gender for not being what you needed or wanted. instead focus on what you need and want and finding that, just moving on from those that aren't.

[jshm2]

You lack personality and are attracted to the wrong type of women is all.

[AngryCarl]

Stop hanging out on loser websites like Reddit and GaG.

[Asker]

To be honest I rarely ever check Reddit and this is my first time ever being on this website

[AngryCarl]

Actually I like @Guy13 's answer. When you are successful in your career women will come to you.

[Anonymous]

Just embrace your misogyny, realize that women are brutally mercinary, and use them a cum dumpsters.

[Anonymous]

Join LGBTQ community

[In_Trance]

therapy