How do I stop feminists to get to my head?

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I am a conservative woman. I love taking care of kids. I've worked for kids for years as a nanny/kindergarten teacher and other similar jobs for years and it makes me really happy. Even though I dont make much money at all I wouldn't want to change it. I'd love to be a stay at home mom and be close to my kids. But living in a very feminist country almost everyone I know is pushing me to change jobs to earn more money. They are shaming me for being feminine and trying to push me to act more dominant and dress tomboyish etc. I never drink alcohol, I never party Im very introverted and even my mom has been trying to push me to drink and go out and have fun and have sex and its just not for me. I'm not hating on anyone who wants that but I feel so much hatred from feminists both online but also in real life. i also know if I become a stay at home mom my family will hate on me so much and might even not want contact with me anymore.. How do I stop it from getting to my head? I love being feminine and submissive and nurturing and all that but I do feel shame for it..

RespectfulGuy · Accepted Answer

Let's see if my words help 😁

1) the word "feminist" is so recent compared to thousands of years of human written history.

Hence its significance is only to those who wanted to promote it.

2) and many who promote it doesn't seem as happy as those thousands of years of wives and mothers who made hundreds wept on their funerals.

3) people who shamed are usually people who felt miserable defending their beliefs. With is reason, you don't need to join them.

4) you're happy for who you are. That's living life. And live it you shall. Dance to those who sham you. Eat, drink and make merry while they felt miserable not able to feel as happy as you are.

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And hey, "blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth", said a man of old. And I can feel your heritage by just reading the Details.

MementoMori777 · Accepted Answer

This should motivate you, your femininity is the secret sauce to attracting guys, these people you speak of are single am I right 😂

Anonymous · Answer

You just have to stop caring about what other people think, it’s as simple as that.

Also realise that many people, while they like to project an image of themselves as being happy and successful, are actually miserable. The image is fake.

Genuinely happy people don’t care about what you do as long as it makes you happy.

The weird thing about miserable people is that they always want to convince other people to be like them. They have a “crabs in the bucket” mentality.

Very few of those feminist women who drink a lot, have a lot of casual sex with different men, work a lot etc. are genuinely happy. They actually see feminine women as a threat, because that’s what men find most attractive.

Masculinity in women is almost always a defence mechanism. They’re afraid of being hurt by men, and maybe they have been in the past, so they become more masculine and assertive to cope with that. Sometimes they’re encouraging you to be a tomboy because they fear for you in the same way. Other times they want you to make yourself less attractive to men out of jealousy.

Massageman · Answer

Consider a visit to a homeschooling meeting or convention. I'm very serious. These people are used to helping others, raising families, and being self-sufficient. My daughter raised her kids, home educated them in three towns in two states. The kids are in the 99th %ile in their studies, and she found vastly different thinking when she moved down South. She wrote a book about Homeschooling. At the homeschool conventions, she met a LOT of people who think the same way as you and I, her, and her husband, etc. I wish you the best in your search.

inhua · Answer

you're not alone. a lot of people are in the same boat especially men who are taught to be weak and spineless but only strong when it comes to defending "progressive" values hence modern liberal society wants "conservative" men who don't actually believe in conservative values

the type of "strong" that society doesn't want is someone who pokes holes in the logic of their liberal ideals

LazerBean · Answer

Maybe just get better friends. Also remember you're not supposed to be submissive to anyone but a husband, and you being apparently inclined to be submissive to just anybody is probably why you're having so much mental anguish over nothing.

MrHopper · Answer

Unless you are being brainwashed If you need to stop something going into your head thats making you think differently then it might have a point

Anonymous · Answer

You seem to have very outdated ideals regarding what femininity and masculinity represents. But nobody can control you, do what makes you happy. I know it’s hard to not feel societal pressure or shame regardless of the situation, but all we can do is try.

CoolCatMar1 · Answer

I have never been a feminist in my opinion real feminism has stopped and left years ago

DarkLegacy · Answer

You must resist, don't let them bully, browbeat, blackmail or threaten you into becoming the worst.

Apple1996 · Answer

Just ignore them. It's not that hard. I'm a stay at home mom and don't even pay attention to haters like that

gorydetails · Answer

Why would you care what a bunch of miserable cunts think about you?

comekitty · Answer

Just ignore the hate the best you can ~ I do 🙂

kespethdude · Answer

Shut the Internet off. You are unfit to be on it, anyway.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

You wanna get head from a feminist? Good luck with that!!

In_Trance · Answer

Stop paying attention to mass media

sheenagwapa · Answer

do what makes yoy happy... love yourself

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