How to not be a Misogynist?

Firstly I'll ask this guys only cause most women on this site love yelling at you rather than understanding or trying to help
Basically I hate it when women are better than me at what I do and I put in everything to make sure that's not the case (Not very hard)
Even though it's a great motivation that makes me move forward I guess it's wrong
How to not be a Misogynist?
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