I'm having some issues with dating. Im constantly being friendzoned by women that I get close to. I always make my intentions clear that I want more than a friendship but they laugh it off and say that I'm more fit to be their "guy best friend" or "brother"? Why is that?
Because. Not everyone is going to be attracted to you. Be glad you have friends. Friends are great too.
Ask someone you like out. If they reject. Move on. Find someone who is.
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Stop confessing and honing snd begging cause that’s what you look like. This is not a logical Business deal. That looks Simp like
Are you making your intentions clear before or after you begin forming a friendship?
Your probably not attractive, best solution is don't be friends with them.
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You can’t force someone to stop putting you in the friend zone. Instead of revealing that you’re looking for a romantic relationship after getting close to them, it would be better to make your intentions known before you start getting to know them. Honestly, if someone mocks you, I don’t think they’re the type of person you want to be in a relationship with. You would be much better off dating someone who would respect you and appreciate you for who you are.
On a scale of 1-10, how confident are you? Girls love a confident man. How well would you rate your physical fitness? I’m not talking about your muscles, I’m talking about general fitness. Are you in shape? Do you initiate conversations first?
Normally, I would not recommend this, but try dating apps. It’s worked for a lot of people, might work for you as well.
Women are attracted to uncertainty and tension. Stating your intentions clearly is like letting the air out of an attractive balloon until it's shriveled. It sounds like you are also placing them above you, rather than dating them to ascertain whether they are suitable to enter into your life. But at the root of the issue is likely that you either have not found your life purpose, or are not on it. Therefore the girls have no real reason to choose you over other guys who have.
Stop being the nice guy -shoulder to cry on-supportive- and yes mam. Just keep to yourself. Her drama is her own. Don't make her life sunshine and rainbows, if she ain't your girl or wife. Girl- friends take advantage of the nice guy. Respectfully listen. I'm sure u seen a bunch of guys pass her by. And you keep wondering, "why me? "
Well stop.You aren't attractive to them or you allow them to be in control. If they can get you to do anything you lose their respect and will be kept around for favors.
If you are making your intentions clear and they laugh it off, walk away. They don't respect you but you should respect yourself, you'd be surprised how much this improves your confidence.
Probably your looks. So maybe ask one of your female friends with help with that But also maybe try giving them a kiss right away. That way she knows you want her for more than just a friend and you will know where you stand with her right away.
Umm they don’t find you attractive… make yourself attractive. Go to the gym and wear dark Color’s.
You're well on your journey. It takes being rejected anywhere between 0 - 200 times, then you get a girlfriend by chance. Keep it up.
Best way is to move on and stop being friends
Stop trying so hard, play hard to get
You are being to nice
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