How can I buy more time to spend with my crush?

[matsudayo]

So there's this guy i have a crush on and we are good friends, not the closest but still. He recently called me because he has a thing of mine and he wanted to return it. So i agreed to meet up with him in front of our school and do i just see him and get my thing and say byebye? What else can i do so that i can spend a little time with him? I mean not something too big like "drag him to an amusement park" cause he's just there to return my thing right? But something little that will make our meetup longer and more interesting.

[Guy13]

Ask him a question about what he likes. If he plays a sport, or carries some sort of fashion, or technology?

[matsudayo]

Kk will do

[Guy13]

Alright... good luck :-)

[hypojoe]

You can't buy more time it's like someone saying im gonna catch up on some reading
You don't catch upon reading you either read or you don't in life you just do what you do and that's it so if your into this guy let him know or don't I have crushes that I would never tell because I know that it would never happen so I just keep it to myself

[emily2009]

Just say "since we've met up anyway, you wanna hang out a while?" and go from there

[D-Pad_Chad]

Ask if he wants to go to a park and walk around, get to know'em etc...

[matsudayo]

Okay that will work THANKS

[boggboss]

Ask him if he wants to go for a coffee or lunch

[matsudayo]

would it make it obvious that i like him or smth cause i definitely dont want that now

[boggboss]

What do u mean u don't want that now u can't try to spend time with him and it not seem like u like him

[matsudayo]

oh no

[boggboss]

Oh no what do u actually know what u want

[matsudayo]

CHILL A LITTLE, i just want to spend time with him WITHOUT him thinking im clinging to him or am super into him cause what if he feels weirded out? omg

[boggboss]

U can't have both I can't have I want to spend time with u and I don't want you to think I'm onto you thats not how it works lol

[matsudayo]

Guess that's true TY

[Jess_D]

Like don’t play games! You like him the do as this guy said. Ask him to go out for coffee or grab some lunch. My crush asked if I’d go to this concert with him Saturday night because his brother can’t go. So I said sure and I’ll buy dinner. That surprised him, buuut I’m not about to play games. I want him to know I’m into him and now I’m sure he does.

[boggboss]

Yep that's it so many people get concerned which coming off as needy but showing intrest is bit being needy

[SnowedIn]

When you meet up with him, say, "Wanna grab a coffee?" Go from there.

[Stevefiveo]

Make up an excuse to invite him back to your place.

[In_Trance]

ask him to

[Anonymous]

ask him.