Girls and guys, would you date and marry a person who is alcoholic or drug addict?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

Other

[Sparkie460]

Absolutely not. I would never and have never dated an addict. When I was dating I met a girl who said she was drug and disease free. I picked her up at her house to go out to eat and see a movie. She wore a sleeveless top which exposed a lot of new needle marks. I asked her about them. She said she occasionally uses drugs but not too often. Since we were still at her house I told her to get out and we were done. Not only did she use drugs but lied about it.

[Sparkie460]

Thanks for the mho

[Asker]

My pleasure

[Lliam]

Generally no. Definitely not if they were actively using. But the best girlfriend I ever had was a recovered (ing) alcoholic and she was a treasure.

[Avicenna]

Hell no, especially marrying her. Those are complete dealbreakers that bring more problems than substance abuse issues.

[Lionman95]

No both are red flags to me. My request even for dating would be that they´ve been sober for at least a couple of month before we could start because I want to see them change to feel comfortable around them.

[holdem4884]

Only if you're incredibly stupid and looking for a life of misery.

[Philyouup]

perhaps after they are not actively addicted for a while. no way if they are still fighting thier mosnters

[AsaKyo]

I was already involved with one

The answer is "never again"

[Midgetmcwidget]

No my favourite chocolate is run and raisin

[BJP21]

Only if they are recovering and free of it.

[whereismyjohnny]

Nope.

[LazerBean]

Not a chance.

[Phoenix98]

Nope.

[Kareem_z21]

No never

[Anonymous]

Absolutely not