Have you been in love with every person you dated?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Only had one boyfriend but uh... No I didn't love him. He told me that he loved me like two months into the relationship. I was like 😧 why? Lol I felt like he barely dated me to know he loved me. I think it was infatuation and maybe he was still in the honeymoon phase.

I think I came close to love though. A few months ago I was talking to this guy. We were just friends and he had this emotional maturity. I've never met a guy so level headed like that before, it was refreshing. He was really funny and so easy to talk to. I really enjoyed talking to him and looked forward to talking to him.

Until I found out he basically faked his entire personality with me. He was using deception and flattery to get something from me and betrayed me.

It totally blindsided me and shattered me emotionally because I was really starting to like him. I ended things, ghosted him. A week after things ended I questioned if I was close to falling in love with him.

I was looking up what it feels like because I've never experienced those emotions before, I wasn't sure if the emotions I felt was love or at least going towards love. Looking back months later, I think I just really liked him. I don't think I've ever experienced really liking someone before lol so yeah. 😅

WonderBell99 · Accepted Answer

No, I have been in one relationship (exclusive), and I "dated" a guy (we were in the "getting to know each other" stage and went out on a few dates) but neither of them worked out. I have never been in love, and I do not know how it feels. I have been infatuated with many, but I lose interest very fast. I do not date many people, though.

I don't think I would experience "love" anytime soon. I want to focus on myself, but if someone great comes along... and is wonderful enough to keep me hooked, why not?

DJB72 · Accepted Answer

Yes. All of them.

It's different every time. My first girlfriend at 16 was a girl I loved passionately. Part of me still does despite having not seen her in over 30 years.

My second girlfriend I was with from 18 to 21. We loved each other enough to live together but not enough to get beyond that.

My third girlfriend - also my first fiancee - and I were together six months. Very intense feelings and thoughts during that time. I made some big mistakes that led to her ending things but she made some that stopped me pushing to try again. Don't get me wrong. I loved her and wanted to spend my life with her, but there are things that prevent that happening.

My wife and I love each other different from our previous relationships.

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

in love with every woman I've been in a (exclusive/committed) relationship with, yes... (all four of them)

never actually been a serial dater myself, there was about three or four other girls I did get to know very well... but, for one reason or another it did not work out (mostly timing) and in those cases, no, I would not say that I fell in love with them, certainly not one sided feelings

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I dated one person and I had a connection with him that involved care and sympathy and reliance but I don't say it was romantic love or pure love. I cared about his looks and my interest in him was not unconditional.

AviatorTom · Answer

No, with dome I was "in lust"

FireGodGoesSeeknFire · Answer

No, of course not.

I am prone to extremely intense limerance and that can be mistaken for love by those less experienced but as general rule true love develops overtime with a person so you can't know until after you've already been dating while.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Of course not. Dating is meant to be a method for finding love. That’s why we change terms when we think we’ve found it. I’ve maybe been on hundreds of dates. I’ve gone out with the same woman more than once maybe dozens of times. I’ve agreed to exclusivity with maybe a couple dozen, and had sex with something like fifteen of them. I’ve had an ongoing sexual relationship a half dozen times or so. I’ve cohabitated twice and been “in love” three times.

DubiousIntentions · Answer

That type of person is usually eager, or even desperate for love, so quickly falls in love with every person they date. That is just a recipe for one broken heart after another. Even if it works for a while they may grow recognizant that never really loved that person, and will then quit it and move on to the next. If you knew a person like this, and their batting record, would you really want to have a relationship with them? And I mean not just to get sex for those who say they would.

SamIam96 · Answer

All except one. I was on a rebound and wanted to date someone so badly with the hope that she'd help me forget. She had a fantastic body but a foul personality. I've never known someone who was so consistently angry. At one point, I decided I was done and stopped all contact. I didn't block her or anything, just never reached out again.

suisuiola · Answer

Nope, sometimes you like a person enough but not love them. I think I've only really been in love with two people I've dated. I think when you simply like or are infatuated with that person, deep down you know it's not going to last and that so is simply passing in your life, which is totally normal.

Crowferret · Answer

I wasn't in love in all of my relationships, most of them I felt pressured into saying "I love you" because they said it first and usually too soon. I realized I never loved one of my boyfriends because he had me walking on eggshells and was always questioning my feelings for him, not giving me any room to develop those feelings.

tonamimargaux · Answer

No not really everyone. I loved my ex-boyfriend a lot during our three years relationship. That’s it. Others were just clouds passing by. I had a few attachments here and there but not necessarily fell in love with anyone.

PizzaPieMamaBear · Answer

Well I only dated one guy my husband yes but he passed away now I’m seeing a new guy first guy since I guess you could say we’re dating I’m catching feelings for him for sure

Fireguy17 · Answer

no, not at all.
Sometimes you know pretty much after hello that it isn't going to go anywhere, other times you barely make it home and inside before you have ripped each other's clothes off.
It just varies with each person.

JDAC092299 · Answer

No but I’ve let the one’s I haven’t clicked with know as soon as I know 👌
Tbh being with someone without knowing if you love them or not feels disrespectful so I doubt I’ll ever get with someone without that initial spark tbh

ArrowheadSW · Answer

No. Not "in love"... Maybe admired and enjoyed the company. But yes I've been in love before for sure.

Gent207-2 · Answer

Yes but only as my definition and understanding of love grew from flames of emotions to a multifaceted world

Mtbgirl · Answer

No. But I have only been in 2 serious relationships that lasted any significant amount of time. One I thought I was in love but was too young I think so I don’t know.

KelleyNice · Answer

I like all of them. However, of course I never loved all of them because the only thing I change more often the boys I date are my clothes.

Katebfun · Answer

Heck NO. Lust. I've loved 2 maybe 3 people. Honestly you get less than 5 chances for true love in a lifetime, LUST does not count.

KAT247 · Answer

It’s hard for me to fall in-love, so no. Not every guy I dated. But I’ve been in love twice. Might never happen again for me honestly

Hairylegs222 · Answer

No. I've never been in love with one woman yet in every relationship of my life unfortunately. Every time it's been I slowly dislike them until I eventually dump them.

AsaKyo · Answer

I wasn't in love with my first boyfriend, since he basically guilt tripped me into dating him continuously, even after I said "No thanks"

BigschlongEnergy · Answer

I’m in love with the female body So yeah I’d say so.

Blackcupcake · Answer

no, I have dated a few dudes, and never fell in love with any of them unfortunately.

rienna888 · Answer

Yeah most people that I was in relationship with :) or I’d just reject the relationship if I don’t love them

McKellar · Answer

I don't know about that,.. but I would give it a chance between her and I. If that spark or chemistry isn't there between her and I, then I'm not gonna worry about it.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

No. That's why it hasn't gone further than just dating.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, this has happened, to me a lot of times

PainusNdeeAnus · Answer

🤣🤣🤣 good one.

Deepinthought345 · Answer

I've been in love with everyone all the time. Nothing wrong in being in love. No harm is loving people. Its a good feeling being IN love

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Yes but not the live that last forever when they cheat or hurt you bad or you grow apart an move away for work

TroyDT2 · Answer

I've never been "in love" with anyone I've dated. I've chosen to love them.

Twalli · Answer

Seeing as she's still my girlfriend, yes. In case you missed it, I haven't dated anyone else but my current girlfriend.

TheBallGuy · Answer

Yes. I have been but I have been cheated. Actually dated jus one person but she also cheated so better to remain single and fuck lol.

whistlingwh0res · Answer

you know that love don't last... I was in love every time but then when things change or when I see the person changed I didn't want to be with him anymore.

ItsRiver · Answer

No, I was not. I did have to lie to some of my exes about it because they were in love, and I cared about them, locking back, I wish I'd told them the truth

OddBeMe · Answer

I thought I was, honestly. Funny how you figure out what love is over time.

alance99 · Answer

It happened with me once and i thought things might change with time but nothing changed

Enoughlove420 · Answer

No I have only been in love once all the other times I was faking to be in love or didn't know what love was.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Nope I've only been in love once. What about you and what was your experience like

Anonymous · Answer

I've never been in love with ANY person I've dated.

Anonymous · Answer

I've only been with one person. Which, fyi, if you have a problem with that I hope you choke on your next meal. Anyway, I still love him, so yes.

Hiiiiquetzal · Answer

No wtf  I've been in love with just two of em all  It's complicated  N I was young yk..

Ill_made_Knight · Answer

No, dating is for learning... finding out

Belgie · Answer

No. Have you never hears of casual dating?

Lilly970 · Answer

I've been in love a whole total of 0 times.

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, not even close.

Summeroflove · Answer

No……..

SnowedIn · Answer

Not every one, no.

serious · Answer

I never dated in my life.

mobiusforniner · Answer

Definitely no. Thats why we broke up

exitseven · Answer

No, i think i was in love with three of them.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Nope only one.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I thought I was.

MysticDevice · Answer

No every one of them.

Mangospacho · Answer

Nope. It was only with two people I dated.

18Uma21 · Answer

Not a bit. I'm a little too picky

Libarena · Answer

I thought I was, but no.

Kelly6 · Answer

For this, answer should be yes.

Wise4myage · Answer

No, some were just based on lust.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Not even close.

Zolly99999 · Answer

No I have not

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